I don鈥檛 want you judging me but I went on business trip and I slept with this guy who I was attracted to and he was attracted to me. So there was attraction going on. Now I鈥檓 back home and he says he loves me he left his wife for me and he told his wife that he slept with me and he is in love with me. I told him it was a mistake and there is no way I will go and leave my husband for him. The sex was good we both young with hot body鈥檚 but there is not more to it at least on my part. Why would he ruin his marriage for one night? I feel bad his marriage is ended but is it my fault? I mean I鈥檓 not telling my husband 鈥榗ause I know it was only a onetime thing. What do you think? BTW I just got to know his wife she is my cousin鈥檚 friend and she is welling to forgive him but he doesn鈥檛鈥?want work the marriage saying he loves this other woman me. Off course I met his wife he doesn鈥檛 know I鈥檓 the other woman. Help I feel bad.Hepl One Night Sex Can It End Marriage?Well is not your fault that he could not keep his pants on. You still have your marriage he left his wife for piece of *** so he is the jerk. Don鈥檛 worry about it.Hepl One Night Sex Can It End Marriage?
Its not your fault that his marriage is ending - one night can only ruin a marriage if there were already problems. If you should feel guilty about anything its cheating on your husband and not being able to be open with him. You need to just be completely honest with the guy you slept with and tell him you have no interest in a relationship, etc. and end it.Hepl One Night Sex Can It End Marriage?Hell yeah! You meet a guy, sleep with him the same night, and he is ready to leave his wife to marry you. Either you are extremely good in the sack, or he is extremely demented.
Pics of hot body or negs.Hepl One Night Sex Can It End Marriage?it might have been a one time thing but you should tell your husband else you will live with this lie between the two of you which can harm the marriage. It will be much worse if he finds out through someone else. he'll resent you and it will harm in in future relationships if he were to choose to leave you but if you have always had an honest open realtionship you should tell him and go to councling to work on things i'm not saying it will ever be easy but it can get better over time he won't trust you for awhile and shouldn't for what you did but it's one step at a time and you relaly should consider it.Hepl One Night Sex Can It End Marriage?
you should feel bad. You have a husband and you slept with other guy.
You are both as bad as one another and deserve each other. It's your other halves I feel bad for.
You need to separate yourself from both of them otherwise their is no good that can come out of this. yes you were wrong for what you did and i agree it's ok not to tell your husband if you are sincere in what you say. There is no reason to create more problems than you already have. But, your best avenue is to stay out of contact with this 'other man' and his wife. Perhaps if he sees you are not willing he will try to reconnect with his wife. and you can go back to working on making your marriage strongerHepl One Night Sex Can It End Marriage?
Honestly, you probably should tell your husband. Would you rather him find out off you or from someone else because this guy might find a way to tell him just to get back at you for not leaving your marriage as well. It also sounds like this guy wanted out of his marriage before you guys hooked up and maybe now he has an excuse to leave it. But you shouldn't lie to your husband because he might not be as understanding as this guy's wife.
id let him PIITB jus sayin
you should feel worse than bad, it was adultery and you [whether you wanted to or not] ripped apart their marriage.big deal you were both attracted, millions of people are attracted to others.
what do you mean he doesnt know you're the other woman? you don't make sense.
you owe it to your husband to be truthful, but if a person can cheat they can certainly lie.
I could understand maybe it ruining his marriage if his wife broke it off with him. But not the other way. And why are you afraid to tell your husband? Is it because you think that he will divorce you? It seems you need to maybe check take a look at your marriage. Either A) You think that you cannot be honest with him b/c you know what he thinks of cheating or B) You know he doesn't care.
Oh grow up! You came on here asking not to be judged with a problem straight out of Days of our Lives.
it sounds like their marriage was already headed towards the shitter for him and this was an easy way for him to get out of it. the situation is wrong, but you know that, and i think you're right to try to make it work with your husband. After all, he is your husband. Don't worry about their marriage...it wasn't you who broke it up. it was him. you didn't force him to sleep with you!
Everyone says you should be honest in a marriage...and while i agree in most cases, yours, like you said, is best kept to yourself. Telling your husband may clear your conscience but it will only make him never trust you again and could potentially ruin your marriage. As long as this is a one time thing. You're human...but don't do it again
So you f ck ed around and you destroyed someones marriage and you don't want anyone judging you. You committed adultery so yeppers the end of his marriage is as much YOUR fault as it is his fault. When you ***** around like a whore you are judged as a whore. Nice going.
It's just nasty in general, and sad.
I just feel bad for your husband havin to still kiss you. Eegh.
I hope your husband does the same to you!
After all " it's just one night of sex"
No big deal, right?
This is going to haunt you whether you know it now or not!
What goes around comes around.
Wow, how skanky are you???
most women that cheat do it because they need to fulfill something that is missing. his problem is his own. keep an open mind if one day your husband does the same to you. Good Luck
You have all ready played a part in ruining this man's marriage, but you are not responsible for his feelings and how things work out. If you want a chance to stay in your marriage, pull out of the situation entirely. Let the other guy know that you don't want to have contact with him anymore and stay away from his wife! Work on your own marriage or end it before you decide to play these games in the future.
that's his own fault for telling his wife about it. let him deal with it. it was his decision.
My guess is they were having problems long before you came into the picture.
