Saturday, March 10, 2012

How can I forget my first and only one night stand?

one night I was so depressed because the guy I used to love will be married to another woman. so my friends accompanied me to a bar to chill out. There was this band who plays rnb and hiphop and one of the member introduced himself to me. He was the cutest among the group so i did not have any hesitation when he asked for my number. I thought that it was a very good opportunity to forget my "ex" and date someone else. we talked for a while and then he's back to his band. Me and my friends went home right away as soon as the band finished the set. He was texting me once in a while checking where I am and what am I doing. during those days I never thought of my "ex" and how depress I am because all my attention was diverted to him. One day he asked me to meet up with him. We had tequilla and i guess I was quite tipsy. It was the first time we went out, and he was so touchy. We decided to leave the place and then it happened. I was so afraid to give it a try but what can I do with that kind of situation? im only human. well it was my first and only one night stand. after that I was so bothered about what I did and I wanted to talk to him that it was not my nature doing that. he would rarely text me and if he does he would be flirty asking me to do it again. And the bull part is, when he saw my pictures wearing 2 piece, he told me if he could do that to me everyday since so far he's not doing it to anyone. He is so arrogant! I was really offended. especially when I found out that he's messaging my friend and asking the same things he did to me. we never see each other after that incident but I can't help myself to not think about it and to not text him. Even though I know how asshole he is, i still want to see him again. What should I do? How can I recover with this stupid thing I've ever made.How can I forget my first and only one night stand?Talk to the guy about it first, tell him how you feel and tell him stop being such a prick... if that fails just go home have a nice cup of steaming hot chocolate (using real dark chocolate is so much better than the powder) read a beautiful short novel like The Old Man and The Sea (none of that depressing **** like Tess or Ethan From etc.) Next morning you'll wake up with an inspired attitude and go out there and find a nice guy who treats you right. Dont give up there'll be someone whos right for you (im a guy lol), just dont dwell on the matter, im sure theres other things to concentrate on like dedicating some time to your work or spending some money on yourself (shopping spree!!!). Spending time with family also is really beneficial (when was the last time you had a nice dnm with your mother). Anyways just be nice and keep going.



fyi i am not religiousHow can I forget my first and only one night stand?Text me instead :-) Ray UK !!!How can I forget my first and only one night stand?hint: please keep these story's short trust me you will get more answers if you summarize people don't like to read big paragraphs and pass this message on so people know



now you usually cant forget things like that there's allot of things i wish i forgot but you can either ignore it or deal with the problem on how you see fair
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