Wednesday, March 7, 2012

Is a one night stand a one night stand or is it more?

My husband had a one night stand with a woman he met in a bar. This was before we were married and he told me about the episode the next day. Eventually we fell in love and married. What confuses me is that to put it in his own words. They felt much for each other. He had feelings for her if not he wouldn't have slept with her. He spent a lot of time kissing and cuddling her and enjoyed it. She wasn't just a piece of meat to him. When I tell him it was a one night stand he used to get irritated with me and says all men are not the same and he doesn't fall into the same category



I am from the far East and he is from Europe. Maybe it's a misunderstanding of cultures. Please explain. ThanksIs a one night stand a one night stand or is it more?tell him to grow up and gt over it. he picked up some female in a bar and went home and had sex with her. he never dated or saw her again. it doens't matter how much foreplay he gave her, it was a one night stand, just like millions of other one night stands, and what he did was no different to the others.



the only "feelings" he had for her, was between his legs. of course she was nothing more than a piece of meat, no matter how much he "enjoyed" it.



sometimes the truth hurts, which is why he gets irritated when he hears this, and has nothing to do with "different cultures".Is a one night stand a one night stand or is it more?definitely it is amatter of cultural difference. but it happened before marriage and knowing this very well. now don't push this matter if you want to remain happy. think for a while he could have not told you about the episode. so live happily.Is a one night stand a one night stand or is it more?If they felt more for each other, they would have made more of the relationship.

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