One night stand??

I suppose i just had a one night stand on saturday and i feel like crap as it`s just not me at all.I was in a relationship for 6 years and have only ever slept with my ex,the first time being 17.We split at new year,i dont know what i was thinking and to make matters worse he`s a friend of my cousins.



To be honest i didnt enjoy it one bit as i`m an old romantic and like to be in love with the person i`m sleeping with.I now feel like crap and rather cheap and will be mortified if i see this guy again as it wasn`t the best experience but i did explain why.



I still cringe when i think about it,help???One night stand??Everyone makes mistakes - and you shouldn't beat yourself up for being human.



Months and months after my divorce, I started dating - and the first woman I was with - well, it was horrible. Nothing against her, but I still felt as if I was somehow cheating...



Stop your cringing - pick yourself up and move forward - what happened yesterday cannot be undone - but you can learn from it and move forward with a lesson learned.



Warjo....re-read...she was 17 when she had her first experience - 6 years ago - that makes her 23 now.One night stand??
Thats one night stands for you! Some people can do them and some cant.One night stand??It happens... I was with my ex for 8 years before we broke up and I went through similar experiences. It took me a while to become comfortable to sleep with other men without feeling low afterward.



I wouldn't dwell on it though...it won't "fix" anything. Just take it as a lesson learned. It's OK if you're not ready to go that far with another man at this point. I would recommend concentrating on yourself as a single person (meaning do not get involved with someone else).
DONT FEEL BAD!...why do i say this?...because you did something spontaneous and maybe it wasnt that good but its no reason to feel degraded....i mean you did it and it is done...chances are if you see this guy again he goin to be friendly and not really care...and plus, in 20 years it will give you something to laugh about....if you let it, this could be a great learing opportunity for you...no matter what, dont feel bad about yourself...a lot of women have a once in a lifetime one night stand and you know what?...its ok...just say to yourself "its done so whatever" and let it go.One night stand??Seems a shame not to have enjoyed it, imagine how you might have felt if your one night stand had turned into a lifelong relationship with someone who turned out to be your soul mate. Fantastic I should think ! just because you didnt doesnt mean your in any way bad, just a bit unlucky, but you have to kiss a few frogs to find a prince and stub a few toes on a long journey.



Deep breath move on and who knows next one might be THE one.



good luckOne night stand??
The best thing to do is learn from your experience. maybe you were seeking affection you miss from your previous relationship and you are still adjusting to your new situation but from your question it seems you have already taken a lot from this experience. if its romance your after, be patient and don't look to hard for it. be true to yourself
Everyone makes mistakes. Trust me, i've been there. The best thing for you to do is stop beating yourself up about it. Learn from this, and just move on. I know you probably do feel horrible now (I did) but you'll get past it, and in time, it will just be a distant and not so pleasant memory. At least you know what not to do next time. Nobody's perfect hun, just try to put it past you.One night stand??
Dont beat yourself up

we all make mistakes and yes you dont do one night stands

because you never needed to before

you had a permanent boyfriend in your life

sometimes when under the influence we seek comfort more and so our walls are down and inhibitions dulled

we go and seek comfort elsewhere we get it and then feel sick %26amp; cheap

just forget it

if this guy is decent he may try to see you again in the proper way or just avoid you but really thats how you feel right now too so just let it go down to experience

who knows you and your ex nay get together again but fear not if you dont you will meet the guy of your dreams soon and you can forget your slip up

it does'nt mean you're a bad person

you just needed a hug and closeness and the booze left you wide open

maybe next weekend you should cut the booze out and just see who you are mixing with for real it's very interesting how quick you can say to yourself

"I would'nt touch him with a barge pole"

whereas with drink on you

you will think they are all adonis types

stop beating yourself up

you did'nt cheat on anyone

the cousins friend may not remember much anyway

and if he is nasty just ignore

you are vulnerable and you will be fine!!



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Chalk it up to experience. At least you can say you have done it - millions of people do it every week. Usually it helps to put these things into perspective.