Was it a one night stand?

Last week i've went to my friends birthday party. Once i got there i saw this very nice looking guy in the club who was also a friend of a birthday girl. We started dancing and talking and i soon realised that we are kissing which was fine by me because i'm a single girl and i don't see nothing wrong in that, but he then asked me if i wanted to go to his house after we leave the club. So soon after we went to his house but i'm not sure what was i thinking back then but i surely don't sleep around and never even had a one night stand so to stop anything from happening i just pretended to be asleep soon after. The next morning i was awaken by him fingering me and to be honest i was in a situation where i couldnt just push him and say no so i had sex with him. He was a vvery sweet guy all the way through and now i start to think that from all the guys i had sex with he was the most careing one and etc. even though i saw him first time in my life.

After we had sex we had some sleep and he made me a very nice breakfast so we were eating and talking about life and etc. and then he took me back home where no other guy even my ex boyfriend never took my home! I'm not sure if i should class it as a one night stand or not because i really like the guy and i would like to see him again ( we have each other numbers) but he has not been in contact with me at all after it all happen and i really feel like texting him and inviting him to meet up for a drink or something but i'm not sure if it is ok to do so. Maybe he should contact me first ? It sounds sad but for me it was almost love at the first sight and i really regret sleeping with him on the first time i ever saw him. Do you think i still have a small chance to see him again? or was it a one night stand for him?Was it a one night stand?you've been with the guy who has perfected the art of one night stands. he got laid and in the end you didn't feel cheap. it's a win-win situationWas it a one night stand?
I've no idea whether 'he saw you as a one night stand', and the only way you are going to really find out is to ask him (he could have lost your number).



There is nothing 'wrong' in being honest and asking him, even if you do feel vulnerable in the asking it. It is Ok and very human to feel vulnerable (because being human is to be ~ just that).



Tell him that you 'enjoyed being with him' and that 'you'd like to spend more time with him' (if you want to) ....and take it from there.



However, remember just how you have been feeling as a result of this episode, and in the future, try to avoid situations where you are liable to find yourself feeling the same way.



Good luck.

Sash.Was it a one night stand?Haha! Get Bowned!Was it a one night stand?
since you haven't contacted him

he probably thinks you wanted a one-nighter!

takes two to tango!

LOL

make up your mind

contact or no contact!Was it a one night stand?i agree. he perfected the one night stand.Was it a one night stand?
I think you have a chance with this guy, contact him. If he doesn't contact you then it ws obviously a one night stand. Don't get you're hopes up though. But i honestly think you guys may have a future together.