Question about one night stands?

Obviously its something that everyone does or has done, often with the intention being some "no strings attached" fun. Im 17 so i havent had a real one yet, but im going to university soon and its something thats gonna happen... for those of you who have had your fair share of one night stands, are they really as bad as people say? I know people who practically live off them, and Ive heard people mention theyve had very bad experiences and often feel "used" the following day...



this sounds like a bit of a strange question coming from someone youd expect to love the idea, but i want to know what to expect when i start so i dont get misled. ive had late night hookups with people i dont know, sure, but nothing like a real one night stand... would be great if you could share your thoughts and ideas. thanks.Question about one night stands?"Obviously its something that everyone does or has done"!!!!!!!!!I never ever had a one night stand and have no intentions of having one as i believe something like sex/make love call it whatever you want should be only with someone that you truly likeQuestion about one night stands?
Not if you both agree that's all there is to it.Question about one night stands?I've never had a bad one. I've had some where I've woken up, looked at her and said to myself "What have I done?", lol but that comes with the territory when alcohol is involved.
Actually, it's not something "everyone" does or has done. I know plenty of people that have never done it, nor would ever do it.



Your late night hookups with people you don't know? One-nighters, dude.Question about one night stands?one night stands can be awesome!! but can also be the worst thing that ever happened to you lol literally .. choose your partner wisely and you will always have a good timeQuestion about one night stands?
Yea, Im the perfect person to ask about this.. I constantly have these.. No Their Not Bad at all. As long as the girl is really wet no... Its just like regular sex with Any gurl. Except your just never going to have sex with her ever again... She just wants to do it one time with yu. No Matter if its good with you or not.
I wouldn't say it's obvious, as I and many people that I know never have played a part in a one night stand. You sound like you have pretty low morals expecting and planning for this. Maybe you should focus on school and developing your self-esteem because it's probably pretty low for you to be thinking like this.Question about one night stands?
One night stands are pointless and ultimately hurtful. Sex is something that should be respected, not desecrated for a few hours of physical enjoyment. For one night, you're going to let someone just use your body, but otherwise, they want no part of you.
How do you feel about getting a STD?
Just make sure if your hung up on looks, don't involve alcohol. My friend hooked with a guy and now really regrets it. Just think about what you will think the next day. They are ok if you both want it. But don't try to convince people, it causes drama.
They can be fun, I've heard. A lot like a **** basically, fun with no emotion involved. I wouldn't have one, I see sex as a special thing but I have been tempted. Don't worry, you know your own mind and if you don't think you'll feel used you won't be. It's just a bit of harmless fun, but be protected.
You're probably the best person to know whether you'll perceive it as nothing or get emotional about it afterwards. If you think it will be the former, then I think as long as you have the intentions of it just being a one night thing - and aren't likely to feel used in the morning - then just go for it if you want to have one. But if it's the latter then maybe you shouldn't if you'd rather not risk being hurt by it. And if you only intend to do it because others have or you feel pressured then I don't think it would be a good idea.
They are not all bad, just think of it this way: guys want to get laid as much as possible, so when there are girls at a party who might want the same thing, so why not give each other what the other one wants.
Personally I would say don't do have them in less you don't mind getting a reputation. Once you have a reputation mud sticks and you will struggle to get a girlfriend. However if you do decide to have them make sure the girls you sleep with are fully aware of what they are doing and are aware its not going to lead anywhere. Also make sure you use a condom and be prepared to help the girl out if something goes wrong.