I have dated guys but never had a boyfriend. I want a boyfriend and wanna be in love but
I guess want to fall in love but not searching for love.
Well I麓m pretty normal girl.
I love partying with friends and I go to club and dance.
In December, I went to the club 3 times, and all of that times, there were 3 men (1 each time) asking me to have a one night stand. All of them were serious, not drunken, being polite, asked me to come with them to hotel (or their house). They were all early 30麓s single men.
Wearing nice clothes, looking succeed wealthy men.
I was freaking out inside but I answered with smile "sorry I麓m not that kind of girl" (I JUST WANNA DANCE AND a little flirting hehe) but they were not that drunken, How could they asking me such question with very very gentle smile and politely?
They were all looking into my eyes and asked me this question, whispering into my ears.
And now I麓m curious that All of them were same kind of men. Wearing suits, business men.
why these guys ask me for a one night stand.
They don麓t approach, not even have a conversation to my friends. My friends dance and flirt with guys in my ages.
Guys in my age, does not approach me. unless Very Very drunken guys.
I always get eyes of older men.
Can you tell me why?
and what makes a random man (with confident and serious) to ask a girl for one night stand?Why random men asked me for one night stand?What's the problem? If they weren't being pushy or trying to take advantage of you, what is wrong with men asking for what they want? At least they didn't act like they were interested in a relationship just to get in your pants. I respect that you have kept your virginity and are waiting for someone you love, but a lot of people especially at clubs or bars are just looking for casual sex.Why random men asked me for one night stand?
Dont listen to them they r old perverts :D you r 21 and they are 30 they are about double of ur age and they are not only asking you they must asking all the girls who are not old and they dont know any thing dont you never say yes to them jus slap them on face and say them mens that you dont know how talk to girls or respect them X :P PEACEWhy random men asked me for one night stand?im a guy, I would never ask a girl that.But hey, if hes asking you, god knows how many girls hes already asked in his life, and god knows how many hes gone all the way with. Remeber, Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STD's) are dangerous. Is less then one hour of pleasure worth misery the rest of your life?
Well what do you expect from guys at the club? They're there to have a good time and if they can score, they're going to. Just don't be that girl who gives in because remember, you're probably not the only girl they've tried or are trying to get with!Why random men asked me for one night stand?It is ony a THRILL to men to be the FIRST with a virgin. Why not be different and hold on to your virginity until you find someone who loves you enough to spend the rest of their life with you. Trust me, they're out there...not many though.Why random men asked me for one night stand?
lol coz thats how they are most of them are PIGS.
remember if they are asking u a one night stand they are asking everygirl the same thing.
dont do it ..you know about the STD right??
The giys your talking about try that with a number of woman everydayWhy random men asked me for one night stand?
you are probably cute or sexy
i guess they keep asking until they find a girl who says yes
well from what you have written, you seem more mature and together than your friends. by that i mean, for example, they might be off drunk and grinding on guys while you dance or sit with your drink, being more classy. which is good...
anyway, i guess young guys think they've got more of a chance with a drunk, provocative girl than someone who doesn't want to be used. and these older guys are probably more attracted to your classiness. the young guys probably think you're out of their league.
Well for 1 younger guys are pussied in general, they won't approach a girl unless wasted. Older guys tend to have a bit more confidence, especially around younger girls (kind of like the attitude you have when your talking to a little kid). Still, those guys are pretty forward, I've never asked a girl to come home with me for sex, although it's implied.
PS: one night stands can turn into relationships. Cause I'm looking for a relationship but I'll still have a ONS with a girl if I think I like her (sex doesn't make things worse).
Listen Sweetie, if you're going to clubs trying to find a decent man who is not just looking for some booty, stop going to clubs. Guys go to clubs hoping to dance their way into some booty. Sorry, but that's the club guy's mentality. Think about the kind of guy you want, then go to the kind of place where those kind of guys are. If you're into fitness, go to a gym. if you're into reading, go to the library. Whatever you enjoy doing, go to that place and find a guy that you have something in common with and you're chances of finding the type of guy you want will increase tremendously. I usually charge for this kind of great advice, but this one's on the house.
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