One night stand v/s a yr long affair?

Another survey. This is for both genders but mainly for females.Ladies,You approach a young guy %26amp; u tell him that all u want is a "summer" fling cuz ur bored wit ur live in bf. He takes u up on the offer. During the course, he falls in love with you.You decide to stay wit him %26amp; after 7 more mnths of dating him, you tell him that you love him %26amp; promise not 2 sleep wit the other bf. Not even a mnth l8r, U sleep wit him cuz u can't tell him ur involved wit sum one new. Fast 4ward a yr. u don't see ur current bf but once every 2 wks. U don't answer his ph calls yet u talk on the ph wit ur ex bf 2-3 times out of the wk. Grant it, u %26amp; ur current bf txt during the day, U don't answer him cuz u hate 2 talk on the ph. Ur current bf tells u how he feels bout this. Explains that ur giving ur ex more time than him. A few wks go %26amp; he has a one nite stand. U don't find out til a mnth l8r. Ur furious! U told him not 2 ever cheat on u nor lie but he did %26amp; brk it off wit him, So I ask this of u ladies, How was his one nite stand any different of ur lying %26amp; cheating to ur exbf for a yr and a half? keep in mind that u also sex txt another ex. So again, here u are cheating %26amp; lying for a yr and half on ur exbf %26amp; ur also sex txtin another ex but yet u were furious by his one night stand. Wld u try to rekindle since u were far wrong? I will say this..he was very gd 2 u, got u everything u ever wanted, %26amp; very romantic.One night stand v/s a yr long affair?I wouldn't cheat in the first place...not to mention that I can't understand your dammed text speak.One night stand v/s a yr long affair?
Well some think it is okay to cheat, But you better not.

So she feels it is okay for her do the cheating. Men,

are this way too. Anywho it sucks when anyone cheats.

They should have been open with each other.One night stand v/s a yr long affair?Cheaters deserve each other. May all the selfish people

end up together, and leave the others with integrity

to find proper partners
I had the hardest time getting past the second line of your story. Text speak sucks. You should drop it.One night stand v/s a yr long affair?You...I would not hire for any kind of a job.



Learn the King's English.One night stand v/s a yr long affair?
i say that woman is a dirty attention whore. that would be unfair to the men.
um.... whore?One night stand v/s a yr long affair?
who cares, just do what make u feel good, but make sure u dont hurt anyone, be frank and dont lie!
I personally don't see you going very far in your relationship with either man. A relationship needs honesty and trust and from what you have said, I don't think you have that. I think you should take some time for yourself to try and figure out what it is you truly want in your heart. Think about what you want to be doing in 10 years. Does BF #1 come into mind? BF #2? Another Man? Whatever it is, I think you should start by taking some time for yourself even if that means breaking it off with both guys.
two wrongs dont make a right and once a cheater always a cheater!! this girl which im guessing is you? umm this girl doesnt deserve niether one of these guys. This girl should take up clubbin since committment means nothing and apparently this girl needs alot of time to mature cause that is pathetic and this girl needs to either get rid of both or choose one, only ONE and commit to him and if he cheats on you or breaks your heart then you probabl deserved it(:
If you are seeing a lying cheating ho that can string two guy on for that large amount of time you should have no guilt in showing her the same respect and consideration she was showing the two guys she was seeing.

he can f*ck whoever the hell he wants to especially since she has a boyfriend and has had one the entire time.

She acted like a ho, so she is getting treated like one. You don't try and turn a ho into a housewife.

**She has double standards and acts like a hypocrite coz that what most cheaters do. It is ok for them to do whatever the hell they want but how dare anyone else.

Why are you shocked she has this mentality? It is a selfish mentality.Obviously by the way she lived her double life she made it quite obvious to him that she saw no issue with having everything her way. and cared little about anyone elses point of view.

She is being as selfish an hypocritical as she always was.
She is a liar and a cheat. You would do well to get rid of her. She obviously thinks she is entitled to do what ever she wants regardless of who it hurts. She didnt seem too concerned about your feelings nor her live in bf's feelings? We call men who do this ASSHOLES. Same label should apply to women...