How can a cheater claim that they really LOVE their spouse?

Like my friend tells me how he has finally severed ties with his mistress, and now claims to have realized that he loves his wife (who is apparently still oblivious to the whole affair) more than anything in the world. It's bad enough to have a drunken one night stand with a co-worker (although many married people often just dismiss that as a 'moment of madness'), but to be having sex with another woman for 6 months whilst you are still living and sleeping with your wife, come on.How can a cheater claim that they really LOVE their spouse?There are different levels, types %26amp; misconceptions of 'love' and though he isn't 'in love' with his wife, where he would feel he couldn't imagine being with anyone else.. he now realises he still has some level of love. (This could be deep down conscience, even if he doesn't feel guilty). But without the respect that should go with it, it is not likely a deep enough love for a lasting relationship. It is highly unlikely, he would suddenly acquire all this afterwards when it wasn't there at the time and is more likely a selfish WANT now.. again.. because he doesn't want to give 'everything' up just selfishly take behind her back for his own needs.



Being in love doesn't ever involve cheating, only lower level loves, which are often personal 'needs, desires, partner-habit, infatuations' etc which people tend to describe as love. It is certainly not if they can do nasty things to their partner knowingly behind their back. Anyone stuck with someone like that deserves to know who they are really with and a chance to get out and get a genuine love instead of always being tricked into believing the low level or even fake one is higher/realer than it is.. I see that as sick.How can a cheater claim that they really LOVE their spouse?
I don't know but I think you are right in some sense, kinda strange.How can a cheater claim that they really LOVE their spouse?Because it's about SEX for men - not loving, close, long-term relationships. After years of a stale marriage, someone comes along and makes them FEEL good about themselves. Makes them feel powerful, flirty, young again... it's not any different than when a woman has an affair. Of course, I see no excuse for it but having had a husband who cheated on me; I do "get it." We're now divorced and he lost a lot. More than I lost in the long run. If he had been willing to stop the affair, our marrige might have been saved. I was willing for the sake of our kids and the sake of the history we had together. But his affair lasted longer than I could deal with... it's over now, but it should have stopped immediately upon my finding out about it.How can a cheater claim that they really LOVE their spouse?
well technically a cheater can always claim they really love their spouse. i suppose you mean how can their spouse believe them? in that case, its difficult. they can't know for certain but once they regain the trust back in their relationship it will make it easier to believe them.How can a cheater claim that they really LOVE their spouse?Once a cheater, always a cheater. 6 months? Are you kidding me? Don't get involved in their marriage problems, but I suggest you stop communicating with this jerk. He "realized" that he loves his wife? Please, how pathetic! If you are friends with his wife, I suggest you let her know it's time to dump this piece of trash.How can a cheater claim that they really LOVE their spouse?
they want to keep the marriage and have lots of sex with others at the same time. A cheater has no moral code of conduct. Pity his poor wife.

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