Wednesday, March 7, 2012

One night of passion?

I'm a girl that respects the meaning of sex. when my ex and I broke up he immediately had sex with someone else which made me feel so disgusted in him. I felt how could he do that with someone he didnt even love? but well im kind of a sucker too. It's been 7months later and I still feel the same about sex but then one night I was out with my guy friend. we had a couple of drinks, started kissing and boom! it happened. It was the best night of my life. but somehow I feel I should feel disgusted in myself. I'm not one for one night stands.. Is it really something to feel bad about? tel me how did you feel the first time you had a one night stand... if you didOne night of passion?I've had only one one-night stand. It was a guy I'd known for over ten years. He was friends with my brother throughout highschool and we flirted with each other here and there, but I always had a boyfriend, he a girl. One night we were out, both single, and we hooked up. He is in the Airforce so he was on leave. He called me the next day, and we went and got lunch and that was the last I've seen or heard from him. I don't regret it cause I always wanted to. lol I'd probably never have a one- night stand again though.One night of passion?
I say it's not really a one night stand since you say you knew him before. Heck do it again, just to make sure you get it out of your system. Like you said some no-strings attached passion can feel really good.One night of passion?Just remember they are seperate and different things -

making love as a couple, and

sex. Dont confuse the two. Have some fun in life, I certainly did.

No rules,

No games,

No regrets.
7 months later you should feel good about lettin yourself move on everyone needs to stop and smell the roses once in a whileOne night of passion?I think you should feel bad. Sex should be only with someone you love. Forget about your ex. move on with your life. If that night was so great, then consider dating your friend. GL!One night of passion?
I don't think its anything to be ashamed of. As long as it is safe and consentual I don't see any reason to not fulfil your desires with a friend who feels the same way.



Obviously you run the risk of leading on your friend romantically, but that's a different matter



Often sex with no strings attached is just what you need to clear your head and keep your life on track.
I felt horrible after my first one night stand. I took a really hot shower and nearly cleaned all my skin off. I felt dirty and trashy. But you are a sexual being. It's not wrong to have sexual wants or even the want to be desired. We all have that want. The key is to always use protection and be selective. It does get easier but try not to make it a habit.One night of passion?
I'm not personally a fan of one night stands for myself. I tend to not like them so much. There is no feeling behind it. Making love as a couple is WAY better than hooking up with someone once.



I've seen that often when people get drunk they do things that simply make them feel good. You obviously needed SOMETHING and you did it.There is no shame in getting something you want. Just be clear afterward with the other person and all will be well. If you do not like that you have had a one night stand, then just try not to do it again or have a friend with benefits....that's never a one night stand type of thing.
I would be afraid of an unexpected pregnancy or sexually transmitted diseases. I believe that sex should be saved for marriage.
ok this is what you need to do get over what u always thought of sex bc thats bascially out of the picture dnt u think and think about what you loved so much about it its not a bad thing okay u did nothing wrong
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