My hubby was suppose to be a one night stand(guys answers please)?

My hubby was suppose to be a one night stand but I ended up liking him and falling in love.We've been together for a year and a half,married for a year but I went away for a couple of weeks and all he wanted to talk about to me was sex, I told him it got annoying and he said, he misses me.My question is,does he love me for me or did he marry me because he loves the sex or me? We have a very active sex life,and so I am starting to question things. How can I tell for sure?ThanksMy hubby was suppose to be a one night stand(guys answers please)?Guys don't marry just for sex. He loves you otherwise he wouldn't have married you. I think the question you should be asking your self is why you have a problem with all the sex. People change and maybe you want more out of the relationship then just sex. Try talking to him and explore new things together. It's okay to have a very active sex life just expect that it may change down the road for you or your partner.My hubby was suppose to be a one night stand(guys answers please)?
i dont think that guys get married just for sex, there has to be something more that he likes about you. maybe you guys just have a good sexual chemostry, i would just enjoy it and take it for what it is. most couples would be jelous. maybe just slow how often you do the deed down,My hubby was suppose to be a one night stand(guys answers please)?I'm not a guy but if your one night stand turned into a marriage and you're still happy after a year and a half, good for you. So what if he talks about sex a lot? It's a huge part of most of our lives and to deny that wouldn't be honest. Be grateful for what you have and quit looking for trouble!
So what... how exciting is it to have phone sex when you KNOW you can't have sex with your spouse... When my hubby goes on TDY, we usually end up talking very naughty.... and loving it. It shows signs of a healthy sex life.My hubby was suppose to be a one night stand(guys answers please)?Well...you were willing to sleep with him without getting married to him, so he obviously must love (or at least care) for you, as he did actually marry you riiiiiight?!



Relax...he's just into you. Weren't you feeling hor ny at all while you were gone?My hubby was suppose to be a one night stand(guys answers please)?
You realize that lust is the biggest things in the beginning of any relationship, it usually last two year, then it hopefully turns into love, but sometimes it ends and we wake up and wonder what in the heck am I doing with this person. Hopefully in your case, you both will have a lasting relationship. In the meantime, call him up and tell him all the dirty little things you want to do. Have fun and good luck.
If you have a happy marriage what does it really matter? A good relationship also has good sex. As long as it's both are good don't over analyze it. My hubby was suppose to be a one night stand(guys answers please)?
You want guys to answer, but girls also has an opinion as we are married to guys. First off, how is the rest of your relationship? How do you guys do on a daily basis? This is what you are missing I think. You guys have a high sex drive and that is fine and dandy, but you need to again, look at your daily life with hubby and see how you click as a whole, not in just the bed department.
LOL Valerie.................He must care about you or he wouldn't still be there. Maybe he thinks that is all you like, since you slept with him on the first night..............you said you have a really active sex life. Stop having sex for 1 month and see what happens. Is it you or is it him?
it's porn he was watching while you were away, good sex life, you went away he watched porn,
He loves you. Guys don't marry for sex. They can get that without getting married.
Welcome to reality. People don't fall in love, they fall in lust, especially us guys. Love is something you grow into, and it takes a long time - for most of us, a lifetime.

Remember that bit about "for better or worse"? That means, when you encounter ruts and potholes in the matrimonial road, you don't abandon the road, you wind your way around and through them and stay on the road.

Most of us expected a romantic and rosy future when we decided to get married, but like the old song says, nobody ever "Promised You A Rose Garden".

Stick with it. That's the most profound measure of adulthood you can ever expect to live up to.
He wanted to talk on the phone to you about sex or when you got home? Sounds like he either is just in to you and misses you. Or is feeling maybe guilty about his disloyalty.


If he is anything like me he loves you like I love my wife and he loves having sex with you. I am the same way at home and when I am away on business. I cant stop thinking of my wife and getting some from her. She has told me on many, many occasions that I talk about sex to much.

And just like I tell her, I'll tell you, be thankful he wants you and not someone else! There are plenty of women that don't get that sort of attention at all. So take it as a compliment and stop worrying if he loves you and married you for that reason. He probably did but I am sure there are 100 other reasons he married you also:)
If it was about sex he would not have married you...I think that the sex is so good that when you are away, he just want to hear about it....A lot man are like that.....Whenever you are feeling doubts just think he could have gotten the sex without marrying you, so he must have loved you.....the sex was a added bonus
Haha. My fiancee and I met randomly and he was suppose to be a one night stand. No he is not just using you sweety. My man and I have sex almost everynight but we are very close and emotional together. You can have sex and be in love. Dont over think things
you have to figure out what else is in the relationship, other than the sex. If that is all that is holding the marriage together, he may have had an affair or two while you were away and you may even have to worry about a disease or two. What do you do on weekends and where do you go? Or how about evenings together before bed time?

what does he do for you other than sex - like helping with the housework, dishes, or even just telling you he loves you?

you have to ask yourself if you were married because of the sex or because you saw other good qualities in him that you admired.

If it was just the sex, you may need to learn self esteem for yourself and that may give you the answer you need right there. Good Luck!!
good luck with your marriage- it doesn't sound like it is built on much