I'm currently in a long distance relationship (she lives 5 states away) of 8 months. Shes 18 and I'm 19. My girlfriend and I first met through myspace during the summer. At first we were just talking but eventually I got her phone number and we began to talk for hours a day which led to us dating. We talked for about 4 or 5 months on the phone everyday until we met in person. She visited me for a week and I treated her well, paid for everything, etc. Everything was fine after she went back to her state for about 2 months.
Its been a month now ever since she and her family moved to another state. After she moved it just seems like she doesn't even like me as much as she use to. Whenever I call she hardly gives me her attention. I try to tell her how I feel but nothing really seems to change. I've just been really frustrated with her for example from the past 3 weeks theres been about 4 different times when I have wanted to breakup with her.
One of the reasons I've been trying to keep the relationship going is because I feel like we had a one night stand (which makes me feel guilty). As I mentioned earlier when she visited me for week, we did have sex. To make this clear, I'm not the type of guy to go for one night stands, Its just that we had sex when she visited me and I haven't seen her in 4 months, so it feels like a one night stand since I haven't seen her in awhile. I really do want to see her again, but the relationship just seems like its dying. I love her and miss being with her too, but I don't feel much love back from her anymore. She always says she still loves me and wants to come back to see me but I don't feel like her hearts with me anymore.
So right now I'm really thinking about ignoring her for awhile to see if shes even cares. Or should I just flat out dump her? Should I try to see her again in person?Long distance relationship / unintentional one night stand?Long distance is rough mate. You could probably talk to her, all the stuff you wrote here would be a good start.Long distance relationship / unintentional one night stand?
your both too young for this.
break up.
dont feel guilty about the one night stand either. as long as it was safeLong distance relationship / unintentional one night stand?you can try to see her if she doesn't seem interested ask what's up and honestly she might just be too young to commit, women have issues with that as well as men, maybe she thinks she wants to know what else is out there. you know how they say "you never know what you have until it's gone" she might not realize that you're the best person for her and she wants to find out if there are any "better" guys for her where she's moved. don't be too surprised if she decides you're not the one there are plenty of people out there and you're both very young and possibly you should see more of the world yourself.
ROFLMAO, The only thing it could be is a one-night stand since you have actually only seen her for a couple days. There is no "relationship" here to break up. The only way you can have a "relationship" is to do it in person. She is not your "girlfriend", just someone you chat with on the internet. Seems like she has grown up enough to realize that being with a real person instead of a computer mouse is much more enjoyable.Long distance relationship / unintentional one night stand?You should talk to her about how you feel and then see her response.. you can also plan a vist and judge how the relationship is. She maybe still has feeings for you but she is prob havin doubts cuz you guys are so far apart. Talk to her before you dump herLong distance relationship / unintentional one night stand?
She might have found someone else in that new state she moved into. Some girls are like that, you know? People aren't too good in long distance relationships. You must really be in love to actually keep things going. Question yourself, are you two really in love? Do you think she's the type of person to leave you for someone new? I think that long distance relationships are usually the most romantic. Are you sure you know what kind of girl she really is? Think about these questions and you might get your answer.
And the whole "ignoring her" tactic may work as well. I know it may be hard, but ignore her for a long while and see her reaction. It's pretty much over if she shows no sign in contacting you or any interest.
May the force be with you.
Well, what do you want to happen? Are you happy with seeing her so infrequently? I don't think you were together long enough to really establish yourself as a couple. What you could do is have a frank discussion with her and tell her what you are thinking. Let her know you are feeling guilty about sleeping with her and want to know her feelings about it. You may not hear the answer you want, but if you don't ask you'll never know.Long distance relationship / unintentional one night stand?
It would probably be best for you to end the relationship, bro.
I know how you feel, and when my friend started to act different towards me after being so nice, I just knew her heart wasn't into me as much as I was into her, anymore. Sometimes the intense feelings decrease and there isn't much we can do about it.
I think you should just talk to her, tell her how you feel, and then let her know that the relationship isn't strong anymore. This could be for the best, you never know.
Well if she's not willing to put in the work to keep in contact with you then you should probably break up with her because you'll both be happier finding someone you actually want to be with. I don't doubt you love her, but it doesn't look like it's working because she's not putting any work in then she's not worth your time, find someone where you are.
I have to agree with Edris - She may have moved away...and moved on. It sounds like she has new interests now, and you might not be one of them anymore.
You shouldn't feel bad about the "one night stand" - you had an established relationship before getting it on.
You're young, find someone who lives closer that will give you more attention.
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