I dont do it because i want to be loved or anything.. i have a bf that shows me enough love, i am just really horny at that point in time and have sex with someone who is equally horny!! Personally i dont feel its a bad thing.. we are humans and we have those needs we have to fufil.
What are your views on this? do u see it in the same light as i asee it or its something bad??
And yes, i do have protected sex and use a condom %26gt;%26gt;%26gt; LOL , i am not that stupid!!
Okay, i have been in a long distant relationship with my bf for over a year. I love him to death and he knows that, sometimes its just so hard!!! no mean judgements please!!One Night stands!!!! what do you think?? God or Bad?God has little to do with it.
The "we have needs" argument is a lame one. If that were so true, then EVERYONE would cheat. But everyone does not. And the reason is obvious: we are human beings. We have intelligence and the ability to control ourselves if we so choose. That is what separates us from the rest of the animals. You are basically making a CHOICE not to respect your relationships.
Here's the main thing: one night stands usually involve strangers, and strangers cannot be trusted. Hell, some people you know can't be trusted. Even if you use protection, accidents happen. And all it takes is one jerk to take advantage of you, and you've got a pregnancy or STD to deal with. And that further impacts your relationship. If you REALLY love your boyfriend, you wouldn't even entertain this idea. The truth is that you really love yourself more.
What is more, the fact that there are women out there that give it up so easy is one reason it is so hard to find a decent guy for a SERIOUS relationship. What is the motivation for a guy to commit to you if he can get sex wherever he wants?
There is a reason that people masturbate and buy sex toys. Safe. Doesn't hurt anyone. Relieves the "need" you are talking about. And it is not a betrayal of the person you allegedly love. One-night stands are, in a word-- STUPID. No question about it. I am not trying to be mean, either. Just calling it as I see it.
Good luck! You're going to need it!One Night stands!!!! what do you think?? God or Bad?Nothing wrong with one-night stands if you are emotionally equipped to deal with them. However, in your case you are actually cheating on your bf, and that is a completely different story. Most folks (me included) would consider that a less than optimal thing since if you love somebody and consider yourself 'with' them, it usually precludes any sexual interaction with other people...One Night stands!!!! what do you think?? God or Bad?Nothing wrong with it. As long as the other person knows its a one time thing go for it. Shoot, I know I have and love it!! Its a win win situation. You do what you got to do. You obviously know what your doing. Oh well, gotta go, time for my one night stand lol! OH yeah!One Night stands!!!! what do you think?? God or Bad?
some ppl wpould look at it as u being a playa, but ur right. nothings wrong with it
-G
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