I have thick Red hair and would like to dye it Black for Halloween. I love my hair so I am going to use Temporary dye but since my hair is so thick I need to use alot of it. How often in one week can I dye it in one week to get it black enough but not damaging my hair. (last time I used 3 bottles in one night it it was only dark drown),How many times in one week can I temp dye my hair?the best way is to use a temporary dye with a green/ash base. it will cancel out your red (for the time you want) and it will also make it last longer. also when u do decide to dye it, section your hair so that you can use each bottle on each section. it is up to you how many sections but if your hair is very thick then i'd say use 4 sections of hair. also i think it would be best if you got your temp dye from a beauty supply place rather than a retail store because they can also give you a semi permanent hair color that deposits color without any ammonia. it will last a little longer but it will only be needed to applied once (to each section)
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Saturday, March 10, 2012
ONE NIGHT STANDS....what do you think?
i had a one night stand on thursday with my friend Mike's best friend. Ive known Mike two years and have heard him talking about his friend Russell all the time..but never actually met him. So on thurs night it was Mike's birthday and I met Russell finally! so anyways in the club it was like we were magnetically pulled together and we kissed...it was amazing. Then about an hour later we decided to go back to my place and it led to us having sex. This was also amazing. I know I wont see Russell any time soon because he goes to college in England so he wont be home til xmas...so we decided not to xchange numbers. I enjoyed the whole experience...but when I told my best friend(who hasnt had sex yet) she said it was a slutty thing to do..and she thought I was joking...now she wont tlk to me...what can I do...she's my best friend since I was 3?? i didnt think it was wrong...it wasn't lik he was a random guy at the bar....and it was intense and passinate even though love wasn't involved. Oh also I'm 19 and Russell id 20.ONE NIGHT STANDS....what do you think?Don't think you are wrong in this situation you are 19 and an adult who makes her own decisions.I'm not trying to be mean but your friend is 100% wrong for her saying what she said to you.It was rude and uncaring for her to say such absurd things.I agree with you too at least it was not a random guy you knew him from a friend.I would have done the same thing(except with a girl lol) It's just sex.Having sex doesn't make you a bad person.I mean if you had sex with the whole football team yeah that is going too far lol,but you didn't so it's cool.If she really is a true friend she wouldn't have said what she said and not talk to you.Give her some time to come around and tell her how you feel.If she still wants to ignore you find other good friends to hang out with.Maybe she is just jealous because you are getting some action.People judge me sometimes over little stupid details,hell i have had people get jealous over me just because i make better decisions than they do and just because im right and they are wrong they say things like oh well you think you know everything.Anything hope you find maybe a friends with benefits relationship so you can go to a friend if you want some loving hehe.Or just stick to the one night stands if you don't want a relationship.Life is short enjoy it the way you want..now go get em girl!!!ONE NIGHT STANDS....what do you think?thanks for your comments...made me feel a lot better! x
Girlfriend is a hater lol ;) if she wont talk so what be you do you. Its not end of the world is it :). Plus she sounds very childish. Replace her lool
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ONE NIGHT STANDS....what do you think?I really can't see what her problem is!ONE NIGHT STANDS....what do you think?Girlfriend is a hater lol ;) if she wont talk so what be you do you. Its not end of the world is it :). Plus she sounds very childish. Replace her lool
Girls - in what situations do you end up having a one night stand?
Women, I have a question for you. So many of you say that you are looking for love. But then most girls I know have ended up having one night stands at some point or the other. Under what situations do you end up having one night stands? Is it planned? Or is it out of boredom, revenge against an ex ? Is it because online dating has made it so easy for people to meet each other, especially in a city like New York (where i live)?
I've been single but busy with work, and have just decided to get into the dating scene, so just trying to understand women all over again :)Girls - in what situations do you end up having a one night stand?Maybe when you're young and naive, had a little too much to drink (not drunk, but buzzed enough to not think straight), and yep, there's your one night stand.Girls - in what situations do you end up having a one night stand?i am not very romantic, i have a real trust issue so to answer your question i guess it would be because i just wanted sex . you know kind of like taking a big poo just feel like you got to every once in a while. than its like be gone long one.black ops zombie maps word translator applebees happy hour what is cloud computing
I've been single but busy with work, and have just decided to get into the dating scene, so just trying to understand women all over again :)Girls - in what situations do you end up having a one night stand?Maybe when you're young and naive, had a little too much to drink (not drunk, but buzzed enough to not think straight), and yep, there's your one night stand.Girls - in what situations do you end up having a one night stand?i am not very romantic, i have a real trust issue so to answer your question i guess it would be because i just wanted sex . you know kind of like taking a big poo just feel like you got to every once in a while. than its like be gone long one.
One night stand with young woman has ruined me?
I am a single 47 year old man about 4 months ago I spent one night with a young woman of 30 I am friends with. I was depressed and lonely after yet another relationship had not worked out, we had a few drinks ending up kissing and made love. It was wonderful. It was certainly the best sex I had ever had and I was crushed when after it had happened she said it had been a mistake. We remain friends but it breaks my heart to know I will never be with her the way I want to.
I am also having difficulty dating other women. I have dates and the women are nice but they do not compare to my young friend and I find that none sexually excites me anymore.
What can I do?One night stand with young woman has ruined me?Not much you can do. The same happened to me when I slept with a woman and later found out she was married. I was simply the quick answer to her problems initially, but I was never a long term option at all. It sucks. The feeling is just awful. However, you have to accept it and move on eventually. It happens.One night stand with young woman has ruined me?Move on and get her out of your mind. The right one will come just don't give up.One night stand with young woman has ruined me?awww
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I am also having difficulty dating other women. I have dates and the women are nice but they do not compare to my young friend and I find that none sexually excites me anymore.
What can I do?One night stand with young woman has ruined me?Not much you can do. The same happened to me when I slept with a woman and later found out she was married. I was simply the quick answer to her problems initially, but I was never a long term option at all. It sucks. The feeling is just awful. However, you have to accept it and move on eventually. It happens.One night stand with young woman has ruined me?Move on and get her out of your mind. The right one will come just don't give up.One night stand with young woman has ruined me?awww
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One-Night Stands....help me!?
Wellllll, I've been kinda crazy lately... I've been partying a lot more than usual, and I had a one night stand with my friend, who I kinda liked, and I thought that if we had sex, he might start to like me back, but no. The next day, he told me, IN A TEXT, that he regretted it because he didn't even remember it. Then he started dating this really ugly chick... Anyway, I let that go, and then a week later, I had sex with my friend's brother, and he said he liked me, and so we did it... and then he won't talk to me now. I hate this. I mean, I love sex and everything, but I keep getting played...! What the phoque?.. =/ Someone please, direct me... My parents aren't the type to help me with this...and my friends will just tell me I'm a whore and spread rumors..(yeah, my "friends" suck assholes).One-Night Stands....help me!?The thing is you are just setting yourself up for these kinds of things. You need to stop throwing yourself at guys they see that as wam bam thank ya mam easy as that. You need to say no to them and let them chase that way you aren't the one looking like and idiot and feeling used the next day.One-Night Stands....help me!?Firstn off u really need to calm down with the sex thing, respect yourself, make sure u have interourse with a guy you know will call you the next day . not who you "think" . follow our hearty not your head. your looking for tht guy .... we all are.. but slow down. get to know people before you try n start a relationship. it seems thats what u want,but let it find you, dont go out looking for it through sex,
She had a one night stand and an abortian - and I cant cope with the thought of another man dumping inside her?
My partner of 2 years had a one night stand with a guy and got pregnant. We hadn;t been seeing so much of each other, and I admit she did not get a good deal out of me, but I was always with her and never ever thought she's cheat. I trusted her.
Not - I have tried to forgive her. The trouble is, whenever I drive past her old work where they met, I cringe, when I drive past where he works now, I cringe. I can't watch any TV with her, because there are contstant reminders of affairs and pregnancies, so we have to watch bloody documentaries. I can't get in her car because he was in it. I can't have sex with her in the missionary position because I imagine thats how he did it. She can't even say anything like "can I have ketchup ont he side" because I imagine her havign him on the side. Now it turns out she got pregnant and panicked and had an abortion, after she found out she was pregnant they went out for a drink so she could 'tell him; or 'get support' or whatever but she didn';t tell him; I went to see him and told him now everyone knows.
I can't get rid of the daily constant reminders - it crucifies me.
I desperately love her, and my children desperately love her and would be heartbroken if we broke up - and I know she now realises she loves me and I don't think she would do it again - but I cant get past it.
I want her to do something to put ti right but she just carries on, she would never mention it if I didn't bring it up. What do I want her to do to put it right? I don't know but I want her to do something? Pleasetell me what she could do to ease the pain as it hurts me so much. I think of nothing else, I can't stand sleeping with her by my side, I am in such a mess and cant get out of it. Please somebody, other than dumping her (she is my last chance - too many failed relationships that hurt) and I dont want anybody else - i really dont. What can we do to work at this? Will time ease the pain? Please somebody - what can she do to help me get over it? Help!!|||Dump her. Don't hang on with a cheater, it's not fair for anybody. It would take a lot of effort for you to get past the resentment and you might not be able to. Plus, if you are nervous about it, she'll probably just cheat again. Also, you say you children like her, but she's let you down horribly, don't let her get closer to them so she can hurt them in some way too.|||She can't do anything to help you get over it. Only you can control your emotions, and learn to deal.|||If you can't get past what happened - you need to break up and move on. Holding on to all this resentment is only going to allow it to build up and make things ugly in the long run.
If you can't get past what happened on your own and you want to be with this person - get some counseling as a COUPLE so you can both regroup and move on from the experience as a stronger team.|||i suggest you move on your not good for each other.|||Dude, you're really talking out of both sides of your mouth, so I don't have much sympathy for you. First off, you clearly did not have a close relationship. You say yourself you didn't see much of each other, and that she didn't get much out of you. You've been with your "partner" (whatever that is) for 2 years; she is not your wife, not your fiance, but she's your, what, fu*k buddy? Did you even have a formal expectation of exclusivity?
So here's this chick you're just using, so she behaves in a manner consistent with not being in much of a relationship, and now you freak out? I don't think you have a leg to stand on.
Y'all need to drop back and punt. Start dating again rather than shacking up. Go to couples counseling. Have long talks about what kind of a relationship you want to have with each other and how you want the future to unfold. In short, this seems to be the wake-up call you need to stop merely drifting along in this relationship, and instead start charting a course for it.|||You never know when another "dumpster" will come around. I would split.|||You are the one that needs to forgive her and if you truly forgive her then you can get past it. I know it's easier said than done. But you say that you love her and don't want anyone else. Then do that. Forgive her and let it go man before it destroys you and your relationship. We all make mistakes. You are not perfect either. None of us are perfect. It is gonna drive you over the edge if you don't get a grip on your feelings about this. It is now in the past, LET IT GO. Stop with the cringing every time you think about the guy when you pass by his place of work and so on. You need to do this before you lose her. (smile)|||I want to tell you that in time you will get over it. For me I could forgive but not forget. We stayed together for about a year after he cheated but it was never the same, I just couldn't forget it. Every time we had sex it would think about him with her. If he was late coming home from work I would panic and imagine he was with her. It ruined the relationship because there was no trust left. There isn't anything you can do to change what happened and neither can she, maybe come counseling would help. Please don't think she is your last chance, because I also thought that too but I'm now married to a wonderful man. Best wishes and many blessings|||When you make a mistake and you know you have in the past to somebody didn't you want forgiveness especially if you hurt someone you love.
Yes she made a mistake it is obvious you are the one she wants to be with. She has already paid dearly for this mistake. Don't you think everytime she sees your child have a birthday she will be reminded of the child she aborted. She will forever think what would he or she looked like what would they have become. She will be forever tortured over this mistake. You don't have to torture her anymore.
She will forever have lasting consequences for her actions.
The hardest thing to do it forgive but we ourselves always want to be forgiven so if you desire to be forgiven in the future because we are humans and we will always make mistakes and desire to be forgiven step up to this plate and forgive. I did not say forget you will never forget but time will take care of that wound.
The longer you carry this grudge the longer you miss out on her love for you. Which one do you want more remorse strife struggle or love you pick.
Remember she will pay this penalty for the rest of her life with or without you.
If you pick forgiveness you must restrain form bringing it up over and over that is only damaging to your relationship. Maybe you could go to counseling that might help you some.
If you are religious pray and ask the Lord to help you overcome this obstacle. You are not the first couple to go through this nor the last but it does not have to be the end of your relationship. You have the ball bounce or drop it.
As for sex with her whatever he did was not that impressive or she would still be there don't you think? He got dumped.
He probably talked a good game but the real deal was he was not you and he was not what she wanted after all. Even if it meant you finding out and treating her like crap just to have you back . Think on that.|||The most important question is do you want to stay with her? If yes then you need to try and get beyond this. Easier said than done. Whatever you do realize it is in the past and focus on the present. i hope she has been remorseful for this action. If not RUN BABY RUN|||If you really love her and want to work things out I recommend couple's counseling. There are a lot of deep issues that need to be addressed. If she won't go with you then I would say there is little hope. If you keep all these feelings bottled up it will eventually erode your relationship away to nothing.
Good luck to both of you.|||the only thing you can do is accept the fact that this has happened and 'forgive and forget'...
or just end it.
If you continue with her and don't 'forgive and forget' it will ruin the relationship and start to resent everything about it and her.
Think long and hard about what you want. If you truly love her and want to be with her, then it's time to forgive her.|||This is what I see, too many failed relationships, that says a lot. You are not going to find Mr. Phil here, what you need is to look up your medical package at work and find a couselor that can help you, let your partner know what you are doing since this will require both of you to attend to be effective. don't let it past another minute if you real;y care about her.
*******I AM IN THE PLAYPEN WITH SWEET MILDRED*****|||There's only one thing you need to remember here.
Only you can control your feelings. Not her. It's up to you if
you want to completely forgive her or live a life of misery.|||i am so sorry that this happened to you...
but it happened and the is no way you can go back in time. your in a really shitty situation bc face it...you have two choices. stay with her or break up. if you stay with her you will NEVER forget this happened...you might move past it but there will be a part of you that will still be hurt from all this. no matter how much you guys work on it. and if you decide to break up....its not going to be easy either...its going to be very hard bc like you said...you love her a lot, and your children love her a lot too.
so either way you go it will be hard.
i think there are many couples out there that deal with this type of situation, and somehow on the outside they move past it and look ok. i think in the inside they are still hurt and a part of them has been broken.
i have always told myself....if i ever get cheated on i will leave. no questions about it, no matter how hard it is and will be. and i think everyone should do that bc if someone loves you with their whole heart they would never have sex with anyone but you. and if they are able to go through it and actually sleep with someone besides you....there was something missing for that split moment where they decided it would be OK to cheat.
I think you need to move on, because after all this there might be someone waiting who would never cheat on you and make you even happier that she ever did. I know you probably dont see that right now but with stuff like this you just have to throw it out the window and start something new.
anyways....if you chose to stay with her i hope things get better, and i hope it never happens again.
good luck!!
Not - I have tried to forgive her. The trouble is, whenever I drive past her old work where they met, I cringe, when I drive past where he works now, I cringe. I can't watch any TV with her, because there are contstant reminders of affairs and pregnancies, so we have to watch bloody documentaries. I can't get in her car because he was in it. I can't have sex with her in the missionary position because I imagine thats how he did it. She can't even say anything like "can I have ketchup ont he side" because I imagine her havign him on the side. Now it turns out she got pregnant and panicked and had an abortion, after she found out she was pregnant they went out for a drink so she could 'tell him; or 'get support' or whatever but she didn';t tell him; I went to see him and told him now everyone knows.
I can't get rid of the daily constant reminders - it crucifies me.
I desperately love her, and my children desperately love her and would be heartbroken if we broke up - and I know she now realises she loves me and I don't think she would do it again - but I cant get past it.
I want her to do something to put ti right but she just carries on, she would never mention it if I didn't bring it up. What do I want her to do to put it right? I don't know but I want her to do something? Pleasetell me what she could do to ease the pain as it hurts me so much. I think of nothing else, I can't stand sleeping with her by my side, I am in such a mess and cant get out of it. Please somebody, other than dumping her (she is my last chance - too many failed relationships that hurt) and I dont want anybody else - i really dont. What can we do to work at this? Will time ease the pain? Please somebody - what can she do to help me get over it? Help!!|||Dump her. Don't hang on with a cheater, it's not fair for anybody. It would take a lot of effort for you to get past the resentment and you might not be able to. Plus, if you are nervous about it, she'll probably just cheat again. Also, you say you children like her, but she's let you down horribly, don't let her get closer to them so she can hurt them in some way too.|||She can't do anything to help you get over it. Only you can control your emotions, and learn to deal.|||If you can't get past what happened - you need to break up and move on. Holding on to all this resentment is only going to allow it to build up and make things ugly in the long run.
If you can't get past what happened on your own and you want to be with this person - get some counseling as a COUPLE so you can both regroup and move on from the experience as a stronger team.|||i suggest you move on your not good for each other.|||Dude, you're really talking out of both sides of your mouth, so I don't have much sympathy for you. First off, you clearly did not have a close relationship. You say yourself you didn't see much of each other, and that she didn't get much out of you. You've been with your "partner" (whatever that is) for 2 years; she is not your wife, not your fiance, but she's your, what, fu*k buddy? Did you even have a formal expectation of exclusivity?
So here's this chick you're just using, so she behaves in a manner consistent with not being in much of a relationship, and now you freak out? I don't think you have a leg to stand on.
Y'all need to drop back and punt. Start dating again rather than shacking up. Go to couples counseling. Have long talks about what kind of a relationship you want to have with each other and how you want the future to unfold. In short, this seems to be the wake-up call you need to stop merely drifting along in this relationship, and instead start charting a course for it.|||You never know when another "dumpster" will come around. I would split.|||You are the one that needs to forgive her and if you truly forgive her then you can get past it. I know it's easier said than done. But you say that you love her and don't want anyone else. Then do that. Forgive her and let it go man before it destroys you and your relationship. We all make mistakes. You are not perfect either. None of us are perfect. It is gonna drive you over the edge if you don't get a grip on your feelings about this. It is now in the past, LET IT GO. Stop with the cringing every time you think about the guy when you pass by his place of work and so on. You need to do this before you lose her. (smile)|||I want to tell you that in time you will get over it. For me I could forgive but not forget. We stayed together for about a year after he cheated but it was never the same, I just couldn't forget it. Every time we had sex it would think about him with her. If he was late coming home from work I would panic and imagine he was with her. It ruined the relationship because there was no trust left. There isn't anything you can do to change what happened and neither can she, maybe come counseling would help. Please don't think she is your last chance, because I also thought that too but I'm now married to a wonderful man. Best wishes and many blessings|||When you make a mistake and you know you have in the past to somebody didn't you want forgiveness especially if you hurt someone you love.
Yes she made a mistake it is obvious you are the one she wants to be with. She has already paid dearly for this mistake. Don't you think everytime she sees your child have a birthday she will be reminded of the child she aborted. She will forever think what would he or she looked like what would they have become. She will be forever tortured over this mistake. You don't have to torture her anymore.
She will forever have lasting consequences for her actions.
The hardest thing to do it forgive but we ourselves always want to be forgiven so if you desire to be forgiven in the future because we are humans and we will always make mistakes and desire to be forgiven step up to this plate and forgive. I did not say forget you will never forget but time will take care of that wound.
The longer you carry this grudge the longer you miss out on her love for you. Which one do you want more remorse strife struggle or love you pick.
Remember she will pay this penalty for the rest of her life with or without you.
If you pick forgiveness you must restrain form bringing it up over and over that is only damaging to your relationship. Maybe you could go to counseling that might help you some.
If you are religious pray and ask the Lord to help you overcome this obstacle. You are not the first couple to go through this nor the last but it does not have to be the end of your relationship. You have the ball bounce or drop it.
As for sex with her whatever he did was not that impressive or she would still be there don't you think? He got dumped.
He probably talked a good game but the real deal was he was not you and he was not what she wanted after all. Even if it meant you finding out and treating her like crap just to have you back . Think on that.|||The most important question is do you want to stay with her? If yes then you need to try and get beyond this. Easier said than done. Whatever you do realize it is in the past and focus on the present. i hope she has been remorseful for this action. If not RUN BABY RUN|||If you really love her and want to work things out I recommend couple's counseling. There are a lot of deep issues that need to be addressed. If she won't go with you then I would say there is little hope. If you keep all these feelings bottled up it will eventually erode your relationship away to nothing.
Good luck to both of you.|||the only thing you can do is accept the fact that this has happened and 'forgive and forget'...
or just end it.
If you continue with her and don't 'forgive and forget' it will ruin the relationship and start to resent everything about it and her.
Think long and hard about what you want. If you truly love her and want to be with her, then it's time to forgive her.|||This is what I see, too many failed relationships, that says a lot. You are not going to find Mr. Phil here, what you need is to look up your medical package at work and find a couselor that can help you, let your partner know what you are doing since this will require both of you to attend to be effective. don't let it past another minute if you real;y care about her.
*******I AM IN THE PLAYPEN WITH SWEET MILDRED*****|||There's only one thing you need to remember here.
Only you can control your feelings. Not her. It's up to you if
you want to completely forgive her or live a life of misery.|||i am so sorry that this happened to you...
but it happened and the is no way you can go back in time. your in a really shitty situation bc face it...you have two choices. stay with her or break up. if you stay with her you will NEVER forget this happened...you might move past it but there will be a part of you that will still be hurt from all this. no matter how much you guys work on it. and if you decide to break up....its not going to be easy either...its going to be very hard bc like you said...you love her a lot, and your children love her a lot too.
so either way you go it will be hard.
i think there are many couples out there that deal with this type of situation, and somehow on the outside they move past it and look ok. i think in the inside they are still hurt and a part of them has been broken.
i have always told myself....if i ever get cheated on i will leave. no questions about it, no matter how hard it is and will be. and i think everyone should do that bc if someone loves you with their whole heart they would never have sex with anyone but you. and if they are able to go through it and actually sleep with someone besides you....there was something missing for that split moment where they decided it would be OK to cheat.
I think you need to move on, because after all this there might be someone waiting who would never cheat on you and make you even happier that she ever did. I know you probably dont see that right now but with stuff like this you just have to throw it out the window and start something new.
anyways....if you chose to stay with her i hope things get better, and i hope it never happens again.
good luck!!
I think iam gay had a one night stand with my best friend from high school?
ok i had a one night stand with my best friend from high school we have known each other since we were in diapers. hes gay i wasn't till 2 days ago. i don't know what to tell my GF i love him to death he has a great body skinny and a great a** i just fell in love with him being really tan makes me want him more now i don't know what got me to do this we just did it one night and he calls me every night wanting to know when we can do it agin iam just lost plz help i really love him i want us to be together forever how do i tell my friends family and my GF help plz no bad comments plz thanks. hes 19 and iam 21 thanks plz helpI think iam gay had a one night stand with my best friend from high school?First off, why bad comments?
I think that is great that you finaly think you have found the one you want to be with forever.
Second off, your girl friend needs to understand that you are doing what you feel is right.
You have found yourself.
I would just start out telling her that you still love her, but not like that.
Just tell her, I'm really sorry, but I have found myself, this is something that I need to do.
As for your friends, if they are your friends they should still accept you.
Some of them might not be "supporters" of it, but they should still stay your friend.
Your parents, you will have to understand that it is going to be a huge shock to them, specialy since you have a girlfriend, that would be the least that they would expect.
I would just let them know you need to talk to them.
Casualy bring it up to them.I think iam gay had a one night stand with my best friend from high school?
You think you're gay?? I had a bf who turned out to be gay. Just tell her that you were never sure that you did really like her/love her. But in no way mention that maybe you were thinking of a guy while you were with her like my ex did. Just try and make her understand that you do respect her and love her just not in that way. Thay you were just confused. just leave out all the tan and nice a**part and you'll be fine. As for her family I don't think you owe them an explanation.I think iam gay had a one night stand with my best friend from high school?You're going to have to choose one of themI think iam gay had a one night stand with my best friend from high school?
don't tell them at christmas dinner! not the right place. tell them when you are ready. as for the g/f just break up with her she does'nt need to know unless you want her to know in which case sit down and talk to her. not going to be easy and might be messy but it is the right thing to do!I think iam gay had a one night stand with my best friend from high school?Break up with the girl (its easy to do, so do it, you don't have to give a reason, so don't). Date the guy for a while, see what its like, you need to know if thats what you want in life....if after a few months (not years, but months) if you still 'love him, thinks he's got a great body and tan' and other...then only then do you need to tell others....
For now, just focus on breaking up with the girl and being with the guy...the rest will come later
I think that is great that you finaly think you have found the one you want to be with forever.
Second off, your girl friend needs to understand that you are doing what you feel is right.
You have found yourself.
I would just start out telling her that you still love her, but not like that.
Just tell her, I'm really sorry, but I have found myself, this is something that I need to do.
As for your friends, if they are your friends they should still accept you.
Some of them might not be "supporters" of it, but they should still stay your friend.
Your parents, you will have to understand that it is going to be a huge shock to them, specialy since you have a girlfriend, that would be the least that they would expect.
I would just let them know you need to talk to them.
Casualy bring it up to them.I think iam gay had a one night stand with my best friend from high school?
You think you're gay?? I had a bf who turned out to be gay. Just tell her that you were never sure that you did really like her/love her. But in no way mention that maybe you were thinking of a guy while you were with her like my ex did. Just try and make her understand that you do respect her and love her just not in that way. Thay you were just confused. just leave out all the tan and nice a**part and you'll be fine. As for her family I don't think you owe them an explanation.I think iam gay had a one night stand with my best friend from high school?You're going to have to choose one of themI think iam gay had a one night stand with my best friend from high school?
don't tell them at christmas dinner! not the right place. tell them when you are ready. as for the g/f just break up with her she does'nt need to know unless you want her to know in which case sit down and talk to her. not going to be easy and might be messy but it is the right thing to do!I think iam gay had a one night stand with my best friend from high school?Break up with the girl (its easy to do, so do it, you don't have to give a reason, so don't). Date the guy for a while, see what its like, you need to know if thats what you want in life....if after a few months (not years, but months) if you still 'love him, thinks he's got a great body and tan' and other...then only then do you need to tell others....
For now, just focus on breaking up with the girl and being with the guy...the rest will come later
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