I have thick Red hair and would like to dye it Black for Halloween. I love my hair so I am going to use Temporary dye but since my hair is so thick I need to use alot of it. How often in one week can I dye it in one week to get it black enough but not damaging my hair. (last time I used 3 bottles in one night it it was only dark drown),How many times in one week can I temp dye my hair?the best way is to use a temporary dye with a green/ash base. it will cancel out your red (for the time you want) and it will also make it last longer. also when u do decide to dye it, section your hair so that you can use each bottle on each section. it is up to you how many sections but if your hair is very thick then i'd say use 4 sections of hair. also i think it would be best if you got your temp dye from a beauty supply place rather than a retail store because they can also give you a semi permanent hair color that deposits color without any ammonia. it will last a little longer but it will only be needed to applied once (to each section)
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Saturday, March 10, 2012
ONE NIGHT STANDS....what do you think?
i had a one night stand on thursday with my friend Mike's best friend. Ive known Mike two years and have heard him talking about his friend Russell all the time..but never actually met him. So on thurs night it was Mike's birthday and I met Russell finally! so anyways in the club it was like we were magnetically pulled together and we kissed...it was amazing. Then about an hour later we decided to go back to my place and it led to us having sex. This was also amazing. I know I wont see Russell any time soon because he goes to college in England so he wont be home til xmas...so we decided not to xchange numbers. I enjoyed the whole experience...but when I told my best friend(who hasnt had sex yet) she said it was a slutty thing to do..and she thought I was joking...now she wont tlk to me...what can I do...she's my best friend since I was 3?? i didnt think it was wrong...it wasn't lik he was a random guy at the bar....and it was intense and passinate even though love wasn't involved. Oh also I'm 19 and Russell id 20.ONE NIGHT STANDS....what do you think?Don't think you are wrong in this situation you are 19 and an adult who makes her own decisions.I'm not trying to be mean but your friend is 100% wrong for her saying what she said to you.It was rude and uncaring for her to say such absurd things.I agree with you too at least it was not a random guy you knew him from a friend.I would have done the same thing(except with a girl lol) It's just sex.Having sex doesn't make you a bad person.I mean if you had sex with the whole football team yeah that is going too far lol,but you didn't so it's cool.If she really is a true friend she wouldn't have said what she said and not talk to you.Give her some time to come around and tell her how you feel.If she still wants to ignore you find other good friends to hang out with.Maybe she is just jealous because you are getting some action.People judge me sometimes over little stupid details,hell i have had people get jealous over me just because i make better decisions than they do and just because im right and they are wrong they say things like oh well you think you know everything.Anything hope you find maybe a friends with benefits relationship so you can go to a friend if you want some loving hehe.Or just stick to the one night stands if you don't want a relationship.Life is short enjoy it the way you want..now go get em girl!!!ONE NIGHT STANDS....what do you think?thanks for your comments...made me feel a lot better! x
Girlfriend is a hater lol ;) if she wont talk so what be you do you. Its not end of the world is it :). Plus she sounds very childish. Replace her lool
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ONE NIGHT STANDS....what do you think?I really can't see what her problem is!ONE NIGHT STANDS....what do you think?Girlfriend is a hater lol ;) if she wont talk so what be you do you. Its not end of the world is it :). Plus she sounds very childish. Replace her lool
Girls - in what situations do you end up having a one night stand?
Women, I have a question for you. So many of you say that you are looking for love. But then most girls I know have ended up having one night stands at some point or the other. Under what situations do you end up having one night stands? Is it planned? Or is it out of boredom, revenge against an ex ? Is it because online dating has made it so easy for people to meet each other, especially in a city like New York (where i live)?
I've been single but busy with work, and have just decided to get into the dating scene, so just trying to understand women all over again :)Girls - in what situations do you end up having a one night stand?Maybe when you're young and naive, had a little too much to drink (not drunk, but buzzed enough to not think straight), and yep, there's your one night stand.Girls - in what situations do you end up having a one night stand?i am not very romantic, i have a real trust issue so to answer your question i guess it would be because i just wanted sex . you know kind of like taking a big poo just feel like you got to every once in a while. than its like be gone long one.black ops zombie maps word translator applebees happy hour what is cloud computing
I've been single but busy with work, and have just decided to get into the dating scene, so just trying to understand women all over again :)Girls - in what situations do you end up having a one night stand?Maybe when you're young and naive, had a little too much to drink (not drunk, but buzzed enough to not think straight), and yep, there's your one night stand.Girls - in what situations do you end up having a one night stand?i am not very romantic, i have a real trust issue so to answer your question i guess it would be because i just wanted sex . you know kind of like taking a big poo just feel like you got to every once in a while. than its like be gone long one.
One night stand with young woman has ruined me?
I am a single 47 year old man about 4 months ago I spent one night with a young woman of 30 I am friends with. I was depressed and lonely after yet another relationship had not worked out, we had a few drinks ending up kissing and made love. It was wonderful. It was certainly the best sex I had ever had and I was crushed when after it had happened she said it had been a mistake. We remain friends but it breaks my heart to know I will never be with her the way I want to.
I am also having difficulty dating other women. I have dates and the women are nice but they do not compare to my young friend and I find that none sexually excites me anymore.
What can I do?One night stand with young woman has ruined me?Not much you can do. The same happened to me when I slept with a woman and later found out she was married. I was simply the quick answer to her problems initially, but I was never a long term option at all. It sucks. The feeling is just awful. However, you have to accept it and move on eventually. It happens.One night stand with young woman has ruined me?Move on and get her out of your mind. The right one will come just don't give up.One night stand with young woman has ruined me?awww
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I am also having difficulty dating other women. I have dates and the women are nice but they do not compare to my young friend and I find that none sexually excites me anymore.
What can I do?One night stand with young woman has ruined me?Not much you can do. The same happened to me when I slept with a woman and later found out she was married. I was simply the quick answer to her problems initially, but I was never a long term option at all. It sucks. The feeling is just awful. However, you have to accept it and move on eventually. It happens.One night stand with young woman has ruined me?Move on and get her out of your mind. The right one will come just don't give up.One night stand with young woman has ruined me?awww
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One-Night Stands....help me!?
Wellllll, I've been kinda crazy lately... I've been partying a lot more than usual, and I had a one night stand with my friend, who I kinda liked, and I thought that if we had sex, he might start to like me back, but no. The next day, he told me, IN A TEXT, that he regretted it because he didn't even remember it. Then he started dating this really ugly chick... Anyway, I let that go, and then a week later, I had sex with my friend's brother, and he said he liked me, and so we did it... and then he won't talk to me now. I hate this. I mean, I love sex and everything, but I keep getting played...! What the phoque?.. =/ Someone please, direct me... My parents aren't the type to help me with this...and my friends will just tell me I'm a whore and spread rumors..(yeah, my "friends" suck assholes).One-Night Stands....help me!?The thing is you are just setting yourself up for these kinds of things. You need to stop throwing yourself at guys they see that as wam bam thank ya mam easy as that. You need to say no to them and let them chase that way you aren't the one looking like and idiot and feeling used the next day.One-Night Stands....help me!?Firstn off u really need to calm down with the sex thing, respect yourself, make sure u have interourse with a guy you know will call you the next day . not who you "think" . follow our hearty not your head. your looking for tht guy .... we all are.. but slow down. get to know people before you try n start a relationship. it seems thats what u want,but let it find you, dont go out looking for it through sex,
She had a one night stand and an abortian - and I cant cope with the thought of another man dumping inside her?
My partner of 2 years had a one night stand with a guy and got pregnant. We hadn;t been seeing so much of each other, and I admit she did not get a good deal out of me, but I was always with her and never ever thought she's cheat. I trusted her.
Not - I have tried to forgive her. The trouble is, whenever I drive past her old work where they met, I cringe, when I drive past where he works now, I cringe. I can't watch any TV with her, because there are contstant reminders of affairs and pregnancies, so we have to watch bloody documentaries. I can't get in her car because he was in it. I can't have sex with her in the missionary position because I imagine thats how he did it. She can't even say anything like "can I have ketchup ont he side" because I imagine her havign him on the side. Now it turns out she got pregnant and panicked and had an abortion, after she found out she was pregnant they went out for a drink so she could 'tell him; or 'get support' or whatever but she didn';t tell him; I went to see him and told him now everyone knows.
I can't get rid of the daily constant reminders - it crucifies me.
I desperately love her, and my children desperately love her and would be heartbroken if we broke up - and I know she now realises she loves me and I don't think she would do it again - but I cant get past it.
I want her to do something to put ti right but she just carries on, she would never mention it if I didn't bring it up. What do I want her to do to put it right? I don't know but I want her to do something? Pleasetell me what she could do to ease the pain as it hurts me so much. I think of nothing else, I can't stand sleeping with her by my side, I am in such a mess and cant get out of it. Please somebody, other than dumping her (she is my last chance - too many failed relationships that hurt) and I dont want anybody else - i really dont. What can we do to work at this? Will time ease the pain? Please somebody - what can she do to help me get over it? Help!!|||Dump her. Don't hang on with a cheater, it's not fair for anybody. It would take a lot of effort for you to get past the resentment and you might not be able to. Plus, if you are nervous about it, she'll probably just cheat again. Also, you say you children like her, but she's let you down horribly, don't let her get closer to them so she can hurt them in some way too.|||She can't do anything to help you get over it. Only you can control your emotions, and learn to deal.|||If you can't get past what happened - you need to break up and move on. Holding on to all this resentment is only going to allow it to build up and make things ugly in the long run.
If you can't get past what happened on your own and you want to be with this person - get some counseling as a COUPLE so you can both regroup and move on from the experience as a stronger team.|||i suggest you move on your not good for each other.|||Dude, you're really talking out of both sides of your mouth, so I don't have much sympathy for you. First off, you clearly did not have a close relationship. You say yourself you didn't see much of each other, and that she didn't get much out of you. You've been with your "partner" (whatever that is) for 2 years; she is not your wife, not your fiance, but she's your, what, fu*k buddy? Did you even have a formal expectation of exclusivity?
So here's this chick you're just using, so she behaves in a manner consistent with not being in much of a relationship, and now you freak out? I don't think you have a leg to stand on.
Y'all need to drop back and punt. Start dating again rather than shacking up. Go to couples counseling. Have long talks about what kind of a relationship you want to have with each other and how you want the future to unfold. In short, this seems to be the wake-up call you need to stop merely drifting along in this relationship, and instead start charting a course for it.|||You never know when another "dumpster" will come around. I would split.|||You are the one that needs to forgive her and if you truly forgive her then you can get past it. I know it's easier said than done. But you say that you love her and don't want anyone else. Then do that. Forgive her and let it go man before it destroys you and your relationship. We all make mistakes. You are not perfect either. None of us are perfect. It is gonna drive you over the edge if you don't get a grip on your feelings about this. It is now in the past, LET IT GO. Stop with the cringing every time you think about the guy when you pass by his place of work and so on. You need to do this before you lose her. (smile)|||I want to tell you that in time you will get over it. For me I could forgive but not forget. We stayed together for about a year after he cheated but it was never the same, I just couldn't forget it. Every time we had sex it would think about him with her. If he was late coming home from work I would panic and imagine he was with her. It ruined the relationship because there was no trust left. There isn't anything you can do to change what happened and neither can she, maybe come counseling would help. Please don't think she is your last chance, because I also thought that too but I'm now married to a wonderful man. Best wishes and many blessings|||When you make a mistake and you know you have in the past to somebody didn't you want forgiveness especially if you hurt someone you love.
Yes she made a mistake it is obvious you are the one she wants to be with. She has already paid dearly for this mistake. Don't you think everytime she sees your child have a birthday she will be reminded of the child she aborted. She will forever think what would he or she looked like what would they have become. She will be forever tortured over this mistake. You don't have to torture her anymore.
She will forever have lasting consequences for her actions.
The hardest thing to do it forgive but we ourselves always want to be forgiven so if you desire to be forgiven in the future because we are humans and we will always make mistakes and desire to be forgiven step up to this plate and forgive. I did not say forget you will never forget but time will take care of that wound.
The longer you carry this grudge the longer you miss out on her love for you. Which one do you want more remorse strife struggle or love you pick.
Remember she will pay this penalty for the rest of her life with or without you.
If you pick forgiveness you must restrain form bringing it up over and over that is only damaging to your relationship. Maybe you could go to counseling that might help you some.
If you are religious pray and ask the Lord to help you overcome this obstacle. You are not the first couple to go through this nor the last but it does not have to be the end of your relationship. You have the ball bounce or drop it.
As for sex with her whatever he did was not that impressive or she would still be there don't you think? He got dumped.
He probably talked a good game but the real deal was he was not you and he was not what she wanted after all. Even if it meant you finding out and treating her like crap just to have you back . Think on that.|||The most important question is do you want to stay with her? If yes then you need to try and get beyond this. Easier said than done. Whatever you do realize it is in the past and focus on the present. i hope she has been remorseful for this action. If not RUN BABY RUN|||If you really love her and want to work things out I recommend couple's counseling. There are a lot of deep issues that need to be addressed. If she won't go with you then I would say there is little hope. If you keep all these feelings bottled up it will eventually erode your relationship away to nothing.
Good luck to both of you.|||the only thing you can do is accept the fact that this has happened and 'forgive and forget'...
or just end it.
If you continue with her and don't 'forgive and forget' it will ruin the relationship and start to resent everything about it and her.
Think long and hard about what you want. If you truly love her and want to be with her, then it's time to forgive her.|||This is what I see, too many failed relationships, that says a lot. You are not going to find Mr. Phil here, what you need is to look up your medical package at work and find a couselor that can help you, let your partner know what you are doing since this will require both of you to attend to be effective. don't let it past another minute if you real;y care about her.
*******I AM IN THE PLAYPEN WITH SWEET MILDRED*****|||There's only one thing you need to remember here.
Only you can control your feelings. Not her. It's up to you if
you want to completely forgive her or live a life of misery.|||i am so sorry that this happened to you...
but it happened and the is no way you can go back in time. your in a really shitty situation bc face it...you have two choices. stay with her or break up. if you stay with her you will NEVER forget this happened...you might move past it but there will be a part of you that will still be hurt from all this. no matter how much you guys work on it. and if you decide to break up....its not going to be easy either...its going to be very hard bc like you said...you love her a lot, and your children love her a lot too.
so either way you go it will be hard.
i think there are many couples out there that deal with this type of situation, and somehow on the outside they move past it and look ok. i think in the inside they are still hurt and a part of them has been broken.
i have always told myself....if i ever get cheated on i will leave. no questions about it, no matter how hard it is and will be. and i think everyone should do that bc if someone loves you with their whole heart they would never have sex with anyone but you. and if they are able to go through it and actually sleep with someone besides you....there was something missing for that split moment where they decided it would be OK to cheat.
I think you need to move on, because after all this there might be someone waiting who would never cheat on you and make you even happier that she ever did. I know you probably dont see that right now but with stuff like this you just have to throw it out the window and start something new.
anyways....if you chose to stay with her i hope things get better, and i hope it never happens again.
good luck!!
Not - I have tried to forgive her. The trouble is, whenever I drive past her old work where they met, I cringe, when I drive past where he works now, I cringe. I can't watch any TV with her, because there are contstant reminders of affairs and pregnancies, so we have to watch bloody documentaries. I can't get in her car because he was in it. I can't have sex with her in the missionary position because I imagine thats how he did it. She can't even say anything like "can I have ketchup ont he side" because I imagine her havign him on the side. Now it turns out she got pregnant and panicked and had an abortion, after she found out she was pregnant they went out for a drink so she could 'tell him; or 'get support' or whatever but she didn';t tell him; I went to see him and told him now everyone knows.
I can't get rid of the daily constant reminders - it crucifies me.
I desperately love her, and my children desperately love her and would be heartbroken if we broke up - and I know she now realises she loves me and I don't think she would do it again - but I cant get past it.
I want her to do something to put ti right but she just carries on, she would never mention it if I didn't bring it up. What do I want her to do to put it right? I don't know but I want her to do something? Pleasetell me what she could do to ease the pain as it hurts me so much. I think of nothing else, I can't stand sleeping with her by my side, I am in such a mess and cant get out of it. Please somebody, other than dumping her (she is my last chance - too many failed relationships that hurt) and I dont want anybody else - i really dont. What can we do to work at this? Will time ease the pain? Please somebody - what can she do to help me get over it? Help!!|||Dump her. Don't hang on with a cheater, it's not fair for anybody. It would take a lot of effort for you to get past the resentment and you might not be able to. Plus, if you are nervous about it, she'll probably just cheat again. Also, you say you children like her, but she's let you down horribly, don't let her get closer to them so she can hurt them in some way too.|||She can't do anything to help you get over it. Only you can control your emotions, and learn to deal.|||If you can't get past what happened - you need to break up and move on. Holding on to all this resentment is only going to allow it to build up and make things ugly in the long run.
If you can't get past what happened on your own and you want to be with this person - get some counseling as a COUPLE so you can both regroup and move on from the experience as a stronger team.|||i suggest you move on your not good for each other.|||Dude, you're really talking out of both sides of your mouth, so I don't have much sympathy for you. First off, you clearly did not have a close relationship. You say yourself you didn't see much of each other, and that she didn't get much out of you. You've been with your "partner" (whatever that is) for 2 years; she is not your wife, not your fiance, but she's your, what, fu*k buddy? Did you even have a formal expectation of exclusivity?
So here's this chick you're just using, so she behaves in a manner consistent with not being in much of a relationship, and now you freak out? I don't think you have a leg to stand on.
Y'all need to drop back and punt. Start dating again rather than shacking up. Go to couples counseling. Have long talks about what kind of a relationship you want to have with each other and how you want the future to unfold. In short, this seems to be the wake-up call you need to stop merely drifting along in this relationship, and instead start charting a course for it.|||You never know when another "dumpster" will come around. I would split.|||You are the one that needs to forgive her and if you truly forgive her then you can get past it. I know it's easier said than done. But you say that you love her and don't want anyone else. Then do that. Forgive her and let it go man before it destroys you and your relationship. We all make mistakes. You are not perfect either. None of us are perfect. It is gonna drive you over the edge if you don't get a grip on your feelings about this. It is now in the past, LET IT GO. Stop with the cringing every time you think about the guy when you pass by his place of work and so on. You need to do this before you lose her. (smile)|||I want to tell you that in time you will get over it. For me I could forgive but not forget. We stayed together for about a year after he cheated but it was never the same, I just couldn't forget it. Every time we had sex it would think about him with her. If he was late coming home from work I would panic and imagine he was with her. It ruined the relationship because there was no trust left. There isn't anything you can do to change what happened and neither can she, maybe come counseling would help. Please don't think she is your last chance, because I also thought that too but I'm now married to a wonderful man. Best wishes and many blessings|||When you make a mistake and you know you have in the past to somebody didn't you want forgiveness especially if you hurt someone you love.
Yes she made a mistake it is obvious you are the one she wants to be with. She has already paid dearly for this mistake. Don't you think everytime she sees your child have a birthday she will be reminded of the child she aborted. She will forever think what would he or she looked like what would they have become. She will be forever tortured over this mistake. You don't have to torture her anymore.
She will forever have lasting consequences for her actions.
The hardest thing to do it forgive but we ourselves always want to be forgiven so if you desire to be forgiven in the future because we are humans and we will always make mistakes and desire to be forgiven step up to this plate and forgive. I did not say forget you will never forget but time will take care of that wound.
The longer you carry this grudge the longer you miss out on her love for you. Which one do you want more remorse strife struggle or love you pick.
Remember she will pay this penalty for the rest of her life with or without you.
If you pick forgiveness you must restrain form bringing it up over and over that is only damaging to your relationship. Maybe you could go to counseling that might help you some.
If you are religious pray and ask the Lord to help you overcome this obstacle. You are not the first couple to go through this nor the last but it does not have to be the end of your relationship. You have the ball bounce or drop it.
As for sex with her whatever he did was not that impressive or she would still be there don't you think? He got dumped.
He probably talked a good game but the real deal was he was not you and he was not what she wanted after all. Even if it meant you finding out and treating her like crap just to have you back . Think on that.|||The most important question is do you want to stay with her? If yes then you need to try and get beyond this. Easier said than done. Whatever you do realize it is in the past and focus on the present. i hope she has been remorseful for this action. If not RUN BABY RUN|||If you really love her and want to work things out I recommend couple's counseling. There are a lot of deep issues that need to be addressed. If she won't go with you then I would say there is little hope. If you keep all these feelings bottled up it will eventually erode your relationship away to nothing.
Good luck to both of you.|||the only thing you can do is accept the fact that this has happened and 'forgive and forget'...
or just end it.
If you continue with her and don't 'forgive and forget' it will ruin the relationship and start to resent everything about it and her.
Think long and hard about what you want. If you truly love her and want to be with her, then it's time to forgive her.|||This is what I see, too many failed relationships, that says a lot. You are not going to find Mr. Phil here, what you need is to look up your medical package at work and find a couselor that can help you, let your partner know what you are doing since this will require both of you to attend to be effective. don't let it past another minute if you real;y care about her.
*******I AM IN THE PLAYPEN WITH SWEET MILDRED*****|||There's only one thing you need to remember here.
Only you can control your feelings. Not her. It's up to you if
you want to completely forgive her or live a life of misery.|||i am so sorry that this happened to you...
but it happened and the is no way you can go back in time. your in a really shitty situation bc face it...you have two choices. stay with her or break up. if you stay with her you will NEVER forget this happened...you might move past it but there will be a part of you that will still be hurt from all this. no matter how much you guys work on it. and if you decide to break up....its not going to be easy either...its going to be very hard bc like you said...you love her a lot, and your children love her a lot too.
so either way you go it will be hard.
i think there are many couples out there that deal with this type of situation, and somehow on the outside they move past it and look ok. i think in the inside they are still hurt and a part of them has been broken.
i have always told myself....if i ever get cheated on i will leave. no questions about it, no matter how hard it is and will be. and i think everyone should do that bc if someone loves you with their whole heart they would never have sex with anyone but you. and if they are able to go through it and actually sleep with someone besides you....there was something missing for that split moment where they decided it would be OK to cheat.
I think you need to move on, because after all this there might be someone waiting who would never cheat on you and make you even happier that she ever did. I know you probably dont see that right now but with stuff like this you just have to throw it out the window and start something new.
anyways....if you chose to stay with her i hope things get better, and i hope it never happens again.
good luck!!
I think iam gay had a one night stand with my best friend from high school?
ok i had a one night stand with my best friend from high school we have known each other since we were in diapers. hes gay i wasn't till 2 days ago. i don't know what to tell my GF i love him to death he has a great body skinny and a great a** i just fell in love with him being really tan makes me want him more now i don't know what got me to do this we just did it one night and he calls me every night wanting to know when we can do it agin iam just lost plz help i really love him i want us to be together forever how do i tell my friends family and my GF help plz no bad comments plz thanks. hes 19 and iam 21 thanks plz helpI think iam gay had a one night stand with my best friend from high school?First off, why bad comments?
I think that is great that you finaly think you have found the one you want to be with forever.
Second off, your girl friend needs to understand that you are doing what you feel is right.
You have found yourself.
I would just start out telling her that you still love her, but not like that.
Just tell her, I'm really sorry, but I have found myself, this is something that I need to do.
As for your friends, if they are your friends they should still accept you.
Some of them might not be "supporters" of it, but they should still stay your friend.
Your parents, you will have to understand that it is going to be a huge shock to them, specialy since you have a girlfriend, that would be the least that they would expect.
I would just let them know you need to talk to them.
Casualy bring it up to them.I think iam gay had a one night stand with my best friend from high school?
You think you're gay?? I had a bf who turned out to be gay. Just tell her that you were never sure that you did really like her/love her. But in no way mention that maybe you were thinking of a guy while you were with her like my ex did. Just try and make her understand that you do respect her and love her just not in that way. Thay you were just confused. just leave out all the tan and nice a**part and you'll be fine. As for her family I don't think you owe them an explanation.I think iam gay had a one night stand with my best friend from high school?You're going to have to choose one of themI think iam gay had a one night stand with my best friend from high school?
don't tell them at christmas dinner! not the right place. tell them when you are ready. as for the g/f just break up with her she does'nt need to know unless you want her to know in which case sit down and talk to her. not going to be easy and might be messy but it is the right thing to do!I think iam gay had a one night stand with my best friend from high school?Break up with the girl (its easy to do, so do it, you don't have to give a reason, so don't). Date the guy for a while, see what its like, you need to know if thats what you want in life....if after a few months (not years, but months) if you still 'love him, thinks he's got a great body and tan' and other...then only then do you need to tell others....
For now, just focus on breaking up with the girl and being with the guy...the rest will come later
I think that is great that you finaly think you have found the one you want to be with forever.
Second off, your girl friend needs to understand that you are doing what you feel is right.
You have found yourself.
I would just start out telling her that you still love her, but not like that.
Just tell her, I'm really sorry, but I have found myself, this is something that I need to do.
As for your friends, if they are your friends they should still accept you.
Some of them might not be "supporters" of it, but they should still stay your friend.
Your parents, you will have to understand that it is going to be a huge shock to them, specialy since you have a girlfriend, that would be the least that they would expect.
I would just let them know you need to talk to them.
Casualy bring it up to them.I think iam gay had a one night stand with my best friend from high school?
You think you're gay?? I had a bf who turned out to be gay. Just tell her that you were never sure that you did really like her/love her. But in no way mention that maybe you were thinking of a guy while you were with her like my ex did. Just try and make her understand that you do respect her and love her just not in that way. Thay you were just confused. just leave out all the tan and nice a**part and you'll be fine. As for her family I don't think you owe them an explanation.I think iam gay had a one night stand with my best friend from high school?You're going to have to choose one of themI think iam gay had a one night stand with my best friend from high school?
don't tell them at christmas dinner! not the right place. tell them when you are ready. as for the g/f just break up with her she does'nt need to know unless you want her to know in which case sit down and talk to her. not going to be easy and might be messy but it is the right thing to do!I think iam gay had a one night stand with my best friend from high school?Break up with the girl (its easy to do, so do it, you don't have to give a reason, so don't). Date the guy for a while, see what its like, you need to know if thats what you want in life....if after a few months (not years, but months) if you still 'love him, thinks he's got a great body and tan' and other...then only then do you need to tell others....
For now, just focus on breaking up with the girl and being with the guy...the rest will come later
One night stands-girls only?
lets assume a guy wants to have a regular healthy sex life without the pressures of a relationship, just wants casual sex with multiple parters but regularly. there are 100's of girls ut tere who would consen to a one night stand, but they are in hih dmnd. since this guy is not the best looking how does he fufill hs dream? how does he become the guy you want to take home to bed in matter of hours? meeting grls online is an option but takes time, how can a guy pick up a girl in a club/party? what does he need to say/do
also i will report the following answers
'masturbate'
'hookers'
'wait till marriage'
'you are somehow a bad peson for wanting sex but not love'
'dunno'One night stands-girls only?there are millions of women out there ....some are hot and some or not.....If you are hot, you will appear attractive to the hot ones and they will want to get with you .....If you are not hot, you will appear attractive to the ones who are also not hot .....Getting a one night stand girl is not a problem as long as you don't try to get one that is out of your league....there are as many horny B list girls as there are horny A list girls ...but most B list guys don't understand the real world.One night stands-girls only?
No such thing as a "healthy sex life" with a bunch of random girls.
You're gross :)
Get a new dream.One night stands-girls only?Ok. Find a lady of the night. She will be a good one night stand.One night stands-girls only?
compliment her, be sweet , charming and bam!! she might wanna do it with uOne night stands-girls only?Honestly I don't care if you report this. You want multiple regular sex partners? The reason you cant find girls is because you only want specific part of their body and you're being an ***. And there are not as many willing girls as you think. Life isn't a porno, (most) real girls have standards. Maybe invest in being a good guy, find a nice girl, treat her right, then, in time, you can have sex with her, and ONLY her all the time.
Btw your penis will probably fall off if you do as many random girls as you can find. Because if they're willing to be friends with benefits with you, they probably have more "friends" on the side.spongebob games online barometer arizona weather florida drivers license
also i will report the following answers
'masturbate'
'hookers'
'wait till marriage'
'you are somehow a bad peson for wanting sex but not love'
'dunno'One night stands-girls only?there are millions of women out there ....some are hot and some or not.....If you are hot, you will appear attractive to the hot ones and they will want to get with you .....If you are not hot, you will appear attractive to the ones who are also not hot .....Getting a one night stand girl is not a problem as long as you don't try to get one that is out of your league....there are as many horny B list girls as there are horny A list girls ...but most B list guys don't understand the real world.One night stands-girls only?
No such thing as a "healthy sex life" with a bunch of random girls.
You're gross :)
Get a new dream.One night stands-girls only?Ok. Find a lady of the night. She will be a good one night stand.One night stands-girls only?
compliment her, be sweet , charming and bam!! she might wanna do it with uOne night stands-girls only?Honestly I don't care if you report this. You want multiple regular sex partners? The reason you cant find girls is because you only want specific part of their body and you're being an ***. And there are not as many willing girls as you think. Life isn't a porno, (most) real girls have standards. Maybe invest in being a good guy, find a nice girl, treat her right, then, in time, you can have sex with her, and ONLY her all the time.
Btw your penis will probably fall off if you do as many random girls as you can find. Because if they're willing to be friends with benefits with you, they probably have more "friends" on the side.
Girls - in what situations do you end up having a one night stand?
Women, I have a question for you. So many of you say that you are looking for love. But then most girls I know have ended up having one night stands at some point or the other. Under what situations do you end up having one night stands? Is it planned? Or is it out of boredom, revenge against an ex ? Is it because online dating has made it so easy for people to meet each other, especially in a city like New York (where i live)?
I've been single but busy with work, and have just decided to get into the dating scene, so just trying to understand women all over again :)Girls - in what situations do you end up having a one night stand?Personally I would never have a one night stand. I feel it's disgusting and demeaning.
I've been single but busy with work, and have just decided to get into the dating scene, so just trying to understand women all over again :)Girls - in what situations do you end up having a one night stand?Personally I would never have a one night stand. I feel it's disgusting and demeaning.
She had a one night stand and an abortian - help me!!?
My partner of 2 years had a one night stand with a guy and got pregnant. We hadn;t been seeing so much of each other, and I admit she did not get a good deal out of me, but I was always with her and never ever thought she's cheat. I trusted her.
Not - I have tried to forgive her. The trouble is, whenever I drive past her old work where they met, I cringe, when I drive past where he works now, I cringe. I can't watch any TV with her, because there are contstant reminders of affairs and pregnancies, so we have to watch bloody documentaries. I can't get in her car because he was in it. I can't have sex with her in the missionary position because I imagine thats how he did it. She can't even say anything like "can I have ketchup ont he side" because I imagine her havign him on the side. Now it turns out she got pregnant and panicked and had an abortion, after she found out she was pregnant they went out for a drink so she could 'tell him; or 'get support' or whatever but she didn';t tell him; I went to see him and told him now everyone knows.
I can't get rid of the daily constant reminders - it crucifies me.
I desperately love her, and my children desperately love her and would be heartbroken if we broke up - and I know she now realises she loves me and I don't think she would do it again - but I cant get past it.
I want her to do something to put ti right but she just carries on, she would never mention it if I didn't bring it up. What do I want her to do to put it right? I don't know but I want her to do something? Pleasetell me what she could do to ease the pain as it hurts me so much. I think of nothing else, I can't stand sleeping with her by my side, I am in such a mess and cant get out of it. Please somebody, other than dumping her (she is my last chance - too many failed relationships that hurt) and I dont want anybody else - i really dont. What can we do to work at this? Will time ease the pain? Please somebody - what can she do to help me get over it? Help!!She had a one night stand and an abortian - help me!!?one word: birth controlShe had a one night stand and an abortian - help me!!?
They way you are living is not healthy. Almost everything in your daily life reminds you and upsets you about what they did. Don't settle for her just because of past failed relationships. There are women out there who will be faithful and not put you through this mess. Sometimes it takes time to heal but if it bothers you this much maybe you should move on. I'm sure this is affecting your parenting a little, and your children want happy parents more then anything.She had a one night stand and an abortian - help me!!?As cliche as it sounds, time does heal all. It may not truly heal the pain but her actions to prove that it was a mistake and that she truly loves you and will never do it again will make it better over time.
Dear Jack..what you are feeling is what every person who has been cheated on has ever felt...hurt, betrayal, rage, jealousy and dispair. She broke the bond of trust that you two had together, so all these feelings are totally justified. You are concentrating on the other man, but you really need to concentrate on why she cheated on you in the first place. What kind of relationship do you two really have? Was she bored? Was it a moment of opportunity for her? Has she told you why or what her reasoning was? This lady has brought on a lot of hurt to you...has she apologized and promised that it will not happen again? If it did happen again, how would you feel? There are no guarantees that people will remain faithful. Even with the best intentions, people can get caught up in it. They may feel neglected or need attention, or it can be for nothing but their own ego.
The choice is yours really. If you truly do not want to end it with this woman, then you have to be prepared to mentally put it out of your mind and move on with her. Can you do this? If you don't, then the relationship has no chance. There is no one magic thing this woman can do to make you feel secure or better. Only time and trust can do that. It will take a long time to rebuild the trust you had before...and maybe it will never happen. You have control over this situation and it is your decision. But you not only have your feelings to worry about, you also mention your children...so keep in mind that your decision affects them too.
I wouldn't let your past pain and failure dictate your actions now. We all get hurt, we all have past pain in relationships. Don't settle. What she did was dispicable. Do you really think that this would not happened again? The key is to why she cheated on you after only two years...you will find your answer in her answer.
The best to you...I feel your pain.She had a one night stand and an abortian - help me!!?Marriage Counseling.
She needs to confess everything to you.
You need to ask all the excoriating and detailed questions you can stand about what they did. Take a few days, even a few weeks to go over everything. Once you are satisfied, never bring it up again.
You get to check-up on her all the time, any time you want.
It sounds like she quit and got a new job that's a good start.
She must break all contact with him.
Together you must address what is lacking in your relationship that lead her to stray. Whatever the reason(s) she ought to still be extremely remorseful. She could have come to you to address the problems instead of leaning on and then bringing another man into it.She had a one night stand and an abortian - help me!!?
time always heals old wounds, sounds 2 me like you both have alot of issues that have 2 be worked out. this a tough thing 2 get passed. maybe start thinking of the things that made you fall in love w/ her 2 begin w/. and visa-versa apparently there something lacking in your relationship. she strayed 4 some reason. bring the romance back.
I agree with MM. You can't go back and undo the past. You can only decide whether you want to work through it or move on. Sometimes Counseling can be helpful. Find a way to change your focus. Time only helps is you are replacing the old memories with "new" positive memories. You'll never forget it. If you can talk about what bothered you most, you can get through it. The mistakes happen when both parties try to ignore it - as if nothing ever happened. It's okay to acknowledge the pain caused by this. It can actually strengthen the relationship and help to get rid of the insecure feelings. As for the trust......that takes time. She'll have to be accountable and earn that.She had a one night stand and an abortian - help me!!?
You need to get with a therapist and get this out of your system.
In the end, you may still choose to leave this relationship; but still --
you need to STOP spinning on this in your head.
And keep this in mind:
She ended a pregnancy.
Her choice: yes.
But STILL. She is carrying a heavy, heavy burden right now.
SOOOOOOOO much more than what you *think* you're going thru right now.
You have no idea what the woman's perspective on this is, Honey.
None whatsoever.
You can't ask her to "put it right." For one thing, the deed's already done; she can't undo it. For another, the issues you're having are your issues, not hers. You need to decide whether you can forgive and move on - and if you can't, then you just plain need to move on.
I am so sorry for you!!!! time will heal your pain, You may forgive but you will never forget!!! I almost cheated But I did Not!!! because I love my husband so much!!! And glad I didnot!!! You may need counceling!!! Or talk to your Pastor!!! When something like this happens Pray,Pray.Pray!! it does help!!!! Good Luck
You chose to forgive her and stay with her, but in all actuallity your not doing that. Your holding on to it and keeping it with you. That trust that was broken has to be earned back by her. Such as her staying home with you more, or her being open with phone calls, texts, emails, whatever. I understand you b/c when I went through this w/ my man I resented him sooooo much for hurting me and giving what was suppose to be MINE away to another. But this is what I did, I was sad for a little while, then I was sooo angry, then after I decided that he was truly sorry I decided to forgive. And that is what I did. I sat him down and said "This is going to be the LAST time we talk about this, but I need answers before I can completely let this go" so we sat and talked about it, in detail. And I promised myself that I wouldn't throw it back up in his face after that. Somehow after a while I was able to stop thinking about those details that you are thinking about. I was able to look at him without thinking about HER. I was able to touch him without wondering if that is how SHE touched him. That hurt went away. I hope it does the same for you. It CAN if you let it, but you have to really try and let it go. If it's been more than a month or so and you still think about it then maybe it is something that you just can't get over. And if she isn't doing anything to try and prove herself then she obviously doesn't care, so you need to ask yourself if it is worth it. I know you say there is no one else out there for you, and your tired of failed relationships, but think about it. She is NOT your last chance. She is obviously not the only person capable of loving you and your children.
Dude, you're really talking out of both sides of your mouth, so I don't have much sympathy for you. First off, you clearly did not have a close relationship. You say yourself you didn't see much of each other, and that she didn't get much out of you. You've been with your "partner" (whatever that is) for 2 years; she is not your wife, not your fiance, but she's your, what, fu*k buddy? Did you even have a formal expectation of exclusivity?
So here's this chick you're just using, so she behaves in a manner consistent with not being in much of a relationship, and now you freak out? I don't think you have a leg to stand on.
Y'all need to drop back and punt. Start dating again rather than shacking up. Go to couples counseling. Have long talks about what kind of a relationship you want to have with each other and how you want the future to unfold. In short, this seems to be the wake-up call you need to stop merely drifting along in this relationship, and instead start charting a course for it.
Not - I have tried to forgive her. The trouble is, whenever I drive past her old work where they met, I cringe, when I drive past where he works now, I cringe. I can't watch any TV with her, because there are contstant reminders of affairs and pregnancies, so we have to watch bloody documentaries. I can't get in her car because he was in it. I can't have sex with her in the missionary position because I imagine thats how he did it. She can't even say anything like "can I have ketchup ont he side" because I imagine her havign him on the side. Now it turns out she got pregnant and panicked and had an abortion, after she found out she was pregnant they went out for a drink so she could 'tell him; or 'get support' or whatever but she didn';t tell him; I went to see him and told him now everyone knows.
I can't get rid of the daily constant reminders - it crucifies me.
I desperately love her, and my children desperately love her and would be heartbroken if we broke up - and I know she now realises she loves me and I don't think she would do it again - but I cant get past it.
I want her to do something to put ti right but she just carries on, she would never mention it if I didn't bring it up. What do I want her to do to put it right? I don't know but I want her to do something? Pleasetell me what she could do to ease the pain as it hurts me so much. I think of nothing else, I can't stand sleeping with her by my side, I am in such a mess and cant get out of it. Please somebody, other than dumping her (she is my last chance - too many failed relationships that hurt) and I dont want anybody else - i really dont. What can we do to work at this? Will time ease the pain? Please somebody - what can she do to help me get over it? Help!!She had a one night stand and an abortian - help me!!?one word: birth controlShe had a one night stand and an abortian - help me!!?
They way you are living is not healthy. Almost everything in your daily life reminds you and upsets you about what they did. Don't settle for her just because of past failed relationships. There are women out there who will be faithful and not put you through this mess. Sometimes it takes time to heal but if it bothers you this much maybe you should move on. I'm sure this is affecting your parenting a little, and your children want happy parents more then anything.She had a one night stand and an abortian - help me!!?As cliche as it sounds, time does heal all. It may not truly heal the pain but her actions to prove that it was a mistake and that she truly loves you and will never do it again will make it better over time.
Dear Jack..what you are feeling is what every person who has been cheated on has ever felt...hurt, betrayal, rage, jealousy and dispair. She broke the bond of trust that you two had together, so all these feelings are totally justified. You are concentrating on the other man, but you really need to concentrate on why she cheated on you in the first place. What kind of relationship do you two really have? Was she bored? Was it a moment of opportunity for her? Has she told you why or what her reasoning was? This lady has brought on a lot of hurt to you...has she apologized and promised that it will not happen again? If it did happen again, how would you feel? There are no guarantees that people will remain faithful. Even with the best intentions, people can get caught up in it. They may feel neglected or need attention, or it can be for nothing but their own ego.
The choice is yours really. If you truly do not want to end it with this woman, then you have to be prepared to mentally put it out of your mind and move on with her. Can you do this? If you don't, then the relationship has no chance. There is no one magic thing this woman can do to make you feel secure or better. Only time and trust can do that. It will take a long time to rebuild the trust you had before...and maybe it will never happen. You have control over this situation and it is your decision. But you not only have your feelings to worry about, you also mention your children...so keep in mind that your decision affects them too.
I wouldn't let your past pain and failure dictate your actions now. We all get hurt, we all have past pain in relationships. Don't settle. What she did was dispicable. Do you really think that this would not happened again? The key is to why she cheated on you after only two years...you will find your answer in her answer.
The best to you...I feel your pain.She had a one night stand and an abortian - help me!!?Marriage Counseling.
She needs to confess everything to you.
You need to ask all the excoriating and detailed questions you can stand about what they did. Take a few days, even a few weeks to go over everything. Once you are satisfied, never bring it up again.
You get to check-up on her all the time, any time you want.
It sounds like she quit and got a new job that's a good start.
She must break all contact with him.
Together you must address what is lacking in your relationship that lead her to stray. Whatever the reason(s) she ought to still be extremely remorseful. She could have come to you to address the problems instead of leaning on and then bringing another man into it.She had a one night stand and an abortian - help me!!?
time always heals old wounds, sounds 2 me like you both have alot of issues that have 2 be worked out. this a tough thing 2 get passed. maybe start thinking of the things that made you fall in love w/ her 2 begin w/. and visa-versa apparently there something lacking in your relationship. she strayed 4 some reason. bring the romance back.
I agree with MM. You can't go back and undo the past. You can only decide whether you want to work through it or move on. Sometimes Counseling can be helpful. Find a way to change your focus. Time only helps is you are replacing the old memories with "new" positive memories. You'll never forget it. If you can talk about what bothered you most, you can get through it. The mistakes happen when both parties try to ignore it - as if nothing ever happened. It's okay to acknowledge the pain caused by this. It can actually strengthen the relationship and help to get rid of the insecure feelings. As for the trust......that takes time. She'll have to be accountable and earn that.She had a one night stand and an abortian - help me!!?
You need to get with a therapist and get this out of your system.
In the end, you may still choose to leave this relationship; but still --
you need to STOP spinning on this in your head.
And keep this in mind:
She ended a pregnancy.
Her choice: yes.
But STILL. She is carrying a heavy, heavy burden right now.
SOOOOOOOO much more than what you *think* you're going thru right now.
You have no idea what the woman's perspective on this is, Honey.
None whatsoever.
You can't ask her to "put it right." For one thing, the deed's already done; she can't undo it. For another, the issues you're having are your issues, not hers. You need to decide whether you can forgive and move on - and if you can't, then you just plain need to move on.
I am so sorry for you!!!! time will heal your pain, You may forgive but you will never forget!!! I almost cheated But I did Not!!! because I love my husband so much!!! And glad I didnot!!! You may need counceling!!! Or talk to your Pastor!!! When something like this happens Pray,Pray.Pray!! it does help!!!! Good Luck
You chose to forgive her and stay with her, but in all actuallity your not doing that. Your holding on to it and keeping it with you. That trust that was broken has to be earned back by her. Such as her staying home with you more, or her being open with phone calls, texts, emails, whatever. I understand you b/c when I went through this w/ my man I resented him sooooo much for hurting me and giving what was suppose to be MINE away to another. But this is what I did, I was sad for a little while, then I was sooo angry, then after I decided that he was truly sorry I decided to forgive. And that is what I did. I sat him down and said "This is going to be the LAST time we talk about this, but I need answers before I can completely let this go" so we sat and talked about it, in detail. And I promised myself that I wouldn't throw it back up in his face after that. Somehow after a while I was able to stop thinking about those details that you are thinking about. I was able to look at him without thinking about HER. I was able to touch him without wondering if that is how SHE touched him. That hurt went away. I hope it does the same for you. It CAN if you let it, but you have to really try and let it go. If it's been more than a month or so and you still think about it then maybe it is something that you just can't get over. And if she isn't doing anything to try and prove herself then she obviously doesn't care, so you need to ask yourself if it is worth it. I know you say there is no one else out there for you, and your tired of failed relationships, but think about it. She is NOT your last chance. She is obviously not the only person capable of loving you and your children.
Dude, you're really talking out of both sides of your mouth, so I don't have much sympathy for you. First off, you clearly did not have a close relationship. You say yourself you didn't see much of each other, and that she didn't get much out of you. You've been with your "partner" (whatever that is) for 2 years; she is not your wife, not your fiance, but she's your, what, fu*k buddy? Did you even have a formal expectation of exclusivity?
So here's this chick you're just using, so she behaves in a manner consistent with not being in much of a relationship, and now you freak out? I don't think you have a leg to stand on.
Y'all need to drop back and punt. Start dating again rather than shacking up. Go to couples counseling. Have long talks about what kind of a relationship you want to have with each other and how you want the future to unfold. In short, this seems to be the wake-up call you need to stop merely drifting along in this relationship, and instead start charting a course for it.
One Night Stand Predictions..?
So, One Night Stand is coming up one week from now.
On June the 1st.
The matches are:
1. The Undertaker Vs Edge (TLC Match, if Undertaker loses he is banished from all of the WWE)
2. Triple H Vs Randy Orton (Last Man Standing Match)
3. John Cena Vs JBL (First Blood Match)
4. Shawn Michaels Vs Batista (Stretcher Match)
5. Jeff Hardy Vs Umaga (Falls Count Anywhere Match)
6. Big Show Vs CM Punk Vs Tommy Dreamer Vs Chavo Guerrero Vs John Morrison (Singapore Cane Match)
Your thoughts on these matches?
I am actually really excited, the matches seem really interesting and I love the stipulations.
I wish there were more titles on the line but we can't have everything.
My predictions are:
1. Undertaker Win
2. Triple H Win
3. John Cena Win
4. Shawn Michaels Win
5. Jeff Hardy Win
6. CM Punk Win
Your predictions?
Star if interesting.
:)
xOne Night Stand Predictions..?Your really right in all your predictions except you have no heals wining. I say Jbl wins. Plus Taker can't lose he is being advertised for some house shows in July. If he loses he will retire. Taker wins. Randy Orton is having a Kid in July and asked for time off he won't win.
LOVE THE PICKSOne Night Stand Predictions..?
Undertaker (hopefully)
Triple H
John Cena
Shawn Micheals
Jeff Hardy
It would be an upset if John Morrison won and I'd like to see him back in the main event. If not him I choose Big Show.One Night Stand Predictions..?the same as you exept cm punk. i think the big show will gonna win it and start a rivalry with kane.
Undertaker wins
Triple H wins
John Cena wins
Batista wins
Jeff Hardy wins
CM Punk winsOne Night Stand Predictions..?I think Undertaker will win his match and he will stay on Smackdown and get his title. Some people only watch Smackdown because of the Undertaker, and it would kill the ratings. It would only leave batista and edge as main eventers if Undertaker left.
Triple H will retain, Hes going to have a long reign.
John Cena will beat JBL.
HBK will beat Batista and get him on the stretcher.
Jeff Hardy defeats Umaga.
Big Show wins the Singapore Cane Match.One Night Stand Predictions..?
1. Undertaker
2. HHH
3. John Cena
4. HBK
5. Jeff Hardy
6. Big Show (but CM Punks cashes it in so it will be triple threat match for the ECW title)
I think most of the predictions will come true, but not all. It is very rare that you see faces win all the matches on the same PPV. I think Punk will lose the Singapore Cane match with Big Show winning and JBL winning his match vs Cena. There is also the chance that Hardy loses his match vs Umaga.One Night Stand Predictions..?
Same with Everything except I want Tommy Dreamer to win
1. taker wins
2.i hope hhh will win but i think wwe has something up their sleeves.
3.pshhhhh. cena
4.heartbreak kid most def.
5.jeff hardy wins
6.big show
Undertaker's fired from ALL of wwe if he loses? If that's the case, taker will win for sure. If he can go to raw, I can see him losing.
HHH will probably get a different contender, maybe JBL.
JBL should get pushed, maybe Cena can restart his rivalry with Y2J for the IC title
HBK's way better than Batista.
I think Umaga should get drafted, this may be his last match on raw, he should put Hardy over
Morrison beat Kane earlier, so I can see him challenge for the title.
Undertaker
HHH
JBL
HBK
Jeff
Morrison
This will be an interesting PPV, good to see ECW have a part in this, I'll be watching!
1.Edge Mcmahon likes him as a champ more than taker
2.Triple H (Blow off match)*
3.John Cena(Blow off match)*
4.Batista(Blow Off match)*
5.Jeff Hardy
6.Cm Punk
*(Blow off match)means(Feud ending)
Undertaker wins
Triple H wins
John Cena wins
HBK wins
Jeff Hardy wins
CM Punk wins
1.undertakerand and edge are on top of ladder and undertaker chokeslams edge then wins the title
2.triple HHH does a pedigree on orton who stays down for the count
3.JBL ducks a steel chair then hits cena with a barbed wire on a stick
4.micheals does sweet chin music
5.jeff hardy does swanton bomb
6. morrison grabs the cane but loses it to big show who swings it and hits morrison and then pins
2. Triple H defeat Randy Orton
3. John Cena defeat JBL
4. Batista defeat HBK (Stretcher Match)
5. Jeff Hardy defeat Umaga (Falls Count Anywhere Match)
6. Big Show defeat CM Punk Tommy Dreamer Chavo Guerrero John Morrison (Singapore Cane Match)
The Undertaker is an absolute dead cert there. I hate it when they have these loser leaves matches, because the outcome is so obvious from as soon as they make the match.
Triple H beats Orton yet again (Snore)
Cena beats JBL this should be a good match, because having said all I have about Cena he can do extreme!
Shawn Michaels beats Batista, because it's predominately a RAW show and they cannot have Smackdown beating RAW's best.
Jeff Hardy beats Umaga setting him up to get back onto his push to the top.
Number 6 I honestly have no idea, at a wild guess I'm going for Show.
Undertaker win
Tripleh win
batista win
john cena win
jeff hardy win
big show win
. The Undertaker Vs Edge (TLC Match, if Undertaker loses he is banished from all of the WWE)
2. Triple H Vs Randy Orton (Last Man Standing Match)
3. John Cena Vs JBL (First Blood Match)
4. Shawn Michaels Vs Batista (Stretcher Match)
5. Jeff Hardy Vs Umaga (Falls Count Anywhere Match)
6. Big Show Vs CM Punk Vs Tommy Dreamer Vs Chavo Guerrero Vs John Morrison (Singapore Cane Match)
1.Undertaker, unless he has a holiday planned or somthing.
2. HHH
3 JBL (cena has to lose this one right?)
4 HBK hopefully, cant see how though, batista will probs injure HBKs knee to set up HBK going off air for a while before coming onto smackdown
5 wtf is this match, hardy will win, hes being given his push again, after FIVE drug violations in his wwe career, he does not deserve it, Umaga deserves to win for being a good worker over the last year
6 Morrison would be a nice suprise, but show or punk. Think show should win though, as he was ECWs main guy when they brought it back with angle
here my prediction which is the BEST and most likely to COME TRUE NO JOKE
SABU,RVD,CACTUSJACK,SANDMAN,.DREAMER,C鈥?TANAKA,TERRY FUNK,LION HEART,TAZZ,BWO,TRIPLE THREAT,and RaVEN
are in charge of the whole pay-per-view so the first thing they do is replace all the wwe superstars from their matches with ecw originals who organise their own matches no storylines promos,segments just pure extreme brutal wrestling whilst the crowd chants EC ****** W another point to make as the ecw originals are in charge they change venue and give the audience the finger and change the venue to philadelphia were the show is sold out in 2 minutes.
UNDERTAKER
TRIPLE H
CENA
SHAWN MICHAELS
JEFF HARDY
BIG SHOW (I DONT LIKE HIM THOUGH) IT'LL BE GOOD TWO GIANTS FIGHT FOR THE TITLE!
Undertaker wins because WWE isn't that stupid to let him go
Triple H because he's gonna have it for longer
Cena because everybody loves him but me
Batista because this storyline needs to end
Hardy because WWE is going to put him back to the spotlight
And Either Big Show or CM Punk Guerrero's not champion type, Morrisons already got one, and no one gives Tommy a break
I pick Tommy Dreamer! ECW Original!
On June the 1st.
The matches are:
1. The Undertaker Vs Edge (TLC Match, if Undertaker loses he is banished from all of the WWE)
2. Triple H Vs Randy Orton (Last Man Standing Match)
3. John Cena Vs JBL (First Blood Match)
4. Shawn Michaels Vs Batista (Stretcher Match)
5. Jeff Hardy Vs Umaga (Falls Count Anywhere Match)
6. Big Show Vs CM Punk Vs Tommy Dreamer Vs Chavo Guerrero Vs John Morrison (Singapore Cane Match)
Your thoughts on these matches?
I am actually really excited, the matches seem really interesting and I love the stipulations.
I wish there were more titles on the line but we can't have everything.
My predictions are:
1. Undertaker Win
2. Triple H Win
3. John Cena Win
4. Shawn Michaels Win
5. Jeff Hardy Win
6. CM Punk Win
Your predictions?
Star if interesting.
:)
xOne Night Stand Predictions..?Your really right in all your predictions except you have no heals wining. I say Jbl wins. Plus Taker can't lose he is being advertised for some house shows in July. If he loses he will retire. Taker wins. Randy Orton is having a Kid in July and asked for time off he won't win.
LOVE THE PICKSOne Night Stand Predictions..?
Undertaker (hopefully)
Triple H
John Cena
Shawn Micheals
Jeff Hardy
It would be an upset if John Morrison won and I'd like to see him back in the main event. If not him I choose Big Show.One Night Stand Predictions..?the same as you exept cm punk. i think the big show will gonna win it and start a rivalry with kane.
Undertaker wins
Triple H wins
John Cena wins
Batista wins
Jeff Hardy wins
CM Punk winsOne Night Stand Predictions..?I think Undertaker will win his match and he will stay on Smackdown and get his title. Some people only watch Smackdown because of the Undertaker, and it would kill the ratings. It would only leave batista and edge as main eventers if Undertaker left.
Triple H will retain, Hes going to have a long reign.
John Cena will beat JBL.
HBK will beat Batista and get him on the stretcher.
Jeff Hardy defeats Umaga.
Big Show wins the Singapore Cane Match.One Night Stand Predictions..?
1. Undertaker
2. HHH
3. John Cena
4. HBK
5. Jeff Hardy
6. Big Show (but CM Punks cashes it in so it will be triple threat match for the ECW title)
I think most of the predictions will come true, but not all. It is very rare that you see faces win all the matches on the same PPV. I think Punk will lose the Singapore Cane match with Big Show winning and JBL winning his match vs Cena. There is also the chance that Hardy loses his match vs Umaga.One Night Stand Predictions..?
Same with Everything except I want Tommy Dreamer to win
1. taker wins
2.i hope hhh will win but i think wwe has something up their sleeves.
3.pshhhhh. cena
4.heartbreak kid most def.
5.jeff hardy wins
6.big show
Undertaker's fired from ALL of wwe if he loses? If that's the case, taker will win for sure. If he can go to raw, I can see him losing.
HHH will probably get a different contender, maybe JBL.
JBL should get pushed, maybe Cena can restart his rivalry with Y2J for the IC title
HBK's way better than Batista.
I think Umaga should get drafted, this may be his last match on raw, he should put Hardy over
Morrison beat Kane earlier, so I can see him challenge for the title.
Undertaker
HHH
JBL
HBK
Jeff
Morrison
This will be an interesting PPV, good to see ECW have a part in this, I'll be watching!
1.Edge Mcmahon likes him as a champ more than taker
2.Triple H (Blow off match)*
3.John Cena(Blow off match)*
4.Batista(Blow Off match)*
5.Jeff Hardy
6.Cm Punk
*(Blow off match)means(Feud ending)
Undertaker wins
Triple H wins
John Cena wins
HBK wins
Jeff Hardy wins
CM Punk wins
1.undertakerand and edge are on top of ladder and undertaker chokeslams edge then wins the title
2.triple HHH does a pedigree on orton who stays down for the count
3.JBL ducks a steel chair then hits cena with a barbed wire on a stick
4.micheals does sweet chin music
5.jeff hardy does swanton bomb
6. morrison grabs the cane but loses it to big show who swings it and hits morrison and then pins
2. Triple H defeat Randy Orton
3. John Cena defeat JBL
4. Batista defeat HBK (Stretcher Match)
5. Jeff Hardy defeat Umaga (Falls Count Anywhere Match)
6. Big Show defeat CM Punk Tommy Dreamer Chavo Guerrero John Morrison (Singapore Cane Match)
The Undertaker is an absolute dead cert there. I hate it when they have these loser leaves matches, because the outcome is so obvious from as soon as they make the match.
Triple H beats Orton yet again (Snore)
Cena beats JBL this should be a good match, because having said all I have about Cena he can do extreme!
Shawn Michaels beats Batista, because it's predominately a RAW show and they cannot have Smackdown beating RAW's best.
Jeff Hardy beats Umaga setting him up to get back onto his push to the top.
Number 6 I honestly have no idea, at a wild guess I'm going for Show.
Undertaker win
Tripleh win
batista win
john cena win
jeff hardy win
big show win
. The Undertaker Vs Edge (TLC Match, if Undertaker loses he is banished from all of the WWE)
2. Triple H Vs Randy Orton (Last Man Standing Match)
3. John Cena Vs JBL (First Blood Match)
4. Shawn Michaels Vs Batista (Stretcher Match)
5. Jeff Hardy Vs Umaga (Falls Count Anywhere Match)
6. Big Show Vs CM Punk Vs Tommy Dreamer Vs Chavo Guerrero Vs John Morrison (Singapore Cane Match)
1.Undertaker, unless he has a holiday planned or somthing.
2. HHH
3 JBL (cena has to lose this one right?)
4 HBK hopefully, cant see how though, batista will probs injure HBKs knee to set up HBK going off air for a while before coming onto smackdown
5 wtf is this match, hardy will win, hes being given his push again, after FIVE drug violations in his wwe career, he does not deserve it, Umaga deserves to win for being a good worker over the last year
6 Morrison would be a nice suprise, but show or punk. Think show should win though, as he was ECWs main guy when they brought it back with angle
here my prediction which is the BEST and most likely to COME TRUE NO JOKE
SABU,RVD,CACTUSJACK,SANDMAN,.DREAMER,C鈥?TANAKA,TERRY FUNK,LION HEART,TAZZ,BWO,TRIPLE THREAT,and RaVEN
are in charge of the whole pay-per-view so the first thing they do is replace all the wwe superstars from their matches with ecw originals who organise their own matches no storylines promos,segments just pure extreme brutal wrestling whilst the crowd chants EC ****** W another point to make as the ecw originals are in charge they change venue and give the audience the finger and change the venue to philadelphia were the show is sold out in 2 minutes.
UNDERTAKER
TRIPLE H
CENA
SHAWN MICHAELS
JEFF HARDY
BIG SHOW (I DONT LIKE HIM THOUGH) IT'LL BE GOOD TWO GIANTS FIGHT FOR THE TITLE!
Undertaker wins because WWE isn't that stupid to let him go
Triple H because he's gonna have it for longer
Cena because everybody loves him but me
Batista because this storyline needs to end
Hardy because WWE is going to put him back to the spotlight
And Either Big Show or CM Punk Guerrero's not champion type, Morrisons already got one, and no one gives Tommy a break
I pick Tommy Dreamer! ECW Original!
She had a one night stand and an abortion and whenever I look at her I see someone else inside her?
My partner of 2 years had a one night stand with a guy and got pregnant. All i see when I see her is someone else's sperm inside her. We hadn;t been seeing so much of each other, and I admit she did not get a good deal out of me, but I was always with her and never ever thought she's cheat. I trusted her.
Not - I have tried to forgive her. The trouble is, whenever I drive past her old work where they met, I cringe, when I drive past where he works now, I cringe. I can't watch any TV with her, because there are contstant reminders of affairs and pregnancies, so we have to watch bloody documentaries. I can't get in her car because he was in it. I can't have sex with her in the missionary position because I imagine thats how he did it. She can't even say anything like "can I have ketchup ont he side" because I imagine her havign him on the side. Now it turns out she got pregnant and panicked and had an abortion, after she found out she was pregnant they went out for a drink so she could 'tell him; or 'get support' or whatever but she didn';t tell him; I went to see him and told him now everyone knows.
I can't get rid of the daily constant reminders - it crucifies me.
I desperately love her, and my children desperately love her and would be heartbroken if we broke up - and I know she now realises she loves me and I don't think she would do it again - but I cant get past it.
I want her to do something to put ti right but she just carries on, she would never mention it if I didn't bring it up. What do I want her to do to put it right? I don't know but I want her to do something? Pleasetell me what she could do to ease the pain as it hurts me so much. I think of nothing else, I can't stand sleeping with her by my side, I am in such a mess and cant get out of it. Please somebody, other than dumping her (she is my last chance - too many failed relationships that hurt) and I dont want anybody else - i really dont. What can we do to work at this? Will time ease the pain? Please somebody - what can she do to help me get over it? Help!!She had a one night stand and an abortion and whenever I look at her I see someone else inside her?You'll never really "forget" about the matter. But, you can always forgive.
It's just that you haven't forgiven her fully, and it hurts you that you still hold the grudge of her being with another man. So you inflict images and reminders of that happening.
Yes, you probably do want her to do something.
You're probably thinking, "Why did she get it off so easy?"
"Why is she feeling fine, when I'M the one feeling the agony?"
"I did nothing wrong, and I feel like I'm on the losing end?"
"How could she have done this to me?"
Thus, many rhetorical and unanswered questions are spinning around you. The key to get over this, is to forgive.
It isn't easy, of course. As you'll need a lot of time, and you crave for her to do something. You want her to do something to "make up" for what she did, since it seems pretty clear she didn't really earn back her mistakes. Perhaps, things that require her effort, and things that you'll see, things that you'll learn to realise that she has fully changed, and is willing to pay up for the things she did in the past. So, maybe you go talk to her about it, if you feel the need to. Tell her how you feel, tell her what goes through your mind everyday. The main thing in the relationship is trust and communication. You need to overcome this, to make the relationship successful. So, perhaps the first step is to do that. It might be able to clear a lot of things by comforting. Just be careful of the words you use, as you say you don't want to lose her.
If you still need help, I advise you to do counseling, to overcome yourself first, then going back to the issue.
You just need patience, determination, and communication to fix this issue. It'll take time, but you can do it.
Good luck. :)She had a one night stand and an abortion and whenever I look at her I see someone else inside her?
I hate to say this but you will never forget it. I've been broken up with my ex for over a year now, not even seen him for over a year, and every little thing reminds me that he chose to be with someone else over me. Get rid of her, but I doubt you will forget about it.She had a one night stand and an abortion and whenever I look at her I see someone else inside her?I can't see you ever getting over it. I wouldn't be able to. I'd move on.She had a one night stand and an abortion and whenever I look at her I see someone else inside her?
Just use her like a whoreShe had a one night stand and an abortion and whenever I look at her I see someone else inside her?there is nothing she can do to fix whatever is going on inside of you. she already did her part by being honest with you. get counseling. you are the only one who can fix the issues you are having. and time will ease the pain if you are being proactive. you have to let go of the past.
ps women deal with this kind of thing all the time so if you decide to break up with her at least put in the same effort that she would have put in with you had the situation been switched.She had a one night stand and an abortion and whenever I look at her I see someone else inside her?
Break up. Yes, you screwed up but so did she. Not only that, but for convenience she "aborted" (in my eyes, murdered) her child. You will never be able to forget that. So apologize to her for being a jerk and say "goodbye". Next time, resolve to do better or stay single.
If you truly love her, and I mean really love her. If you're sure that you really don't want anybody else, ask her to marry you.
If she says yes, you can be sure of how much she loves you. She know she did bad, she's tried to make it up to you. Now its your turn. Forgive her. She turned from you because you did not give her what she needed, be it sex or attention. Now that you know you could lose her, be what she needs you to be.
She is not the only one at fault. You neglected her. She ran off with him. You both did wrong. She's sorry, but now its your turn to be sorry and change.
Or dump her. Plain and simple. If you won't put anything into this and admit you need to change as well, then end it before she dumps you for treating her so bad.
Not - I have tried to forgive her. The trouble is, whenever I drive past her old work where they met, I cringe, when I drive past where he works now, I cringe. I can't watch any TV with her, because there are contstant reminders of affairs and pregnancies, so we have to watch bloody documentaries. I can't get in her car because he was in it. I can't have sex with her in the missionary position because I imagine thats how he did it. She can't even say anything like "can I have ketchup ont he side" because I imagine her havign him on the side. Now it turns out she got pregnant and panicked and had an abortion, after she found out she was pregnant they went out for a drink so she could 'tell him; or 'get support' or whatever but she didn';t tell him; I went to see him and told him now everyone knows.
I can't get rid of the daily constant reminders - it crucifies me.
I desperately love her, and my children desperately love her and would be heartbroken if we broke up - and I know she now realises she loves me and I don't think she would do it again - but I cant get past it.
I want her to do something to put ti right but she just carries on, she would never mention it if I didn't bring it up. What do I want her to do to put it right? I don't know but I want her to do something? Pleasetell me what she could do to ease the pain as it hurts me so much. I think of nothing else, I can't stand sleeping with her by my side, I am in such a mess and cant get out of it. Please somebody, other than dumping her (she is my last chance - too many failed relationships that hurt) and I dont want anybody else - i really dont. What can we do to work at this? Will time ease the pain? Please somebody - what can she do to help me get over it? Help!!She had a one night stand and an abortion and whenever I look at her I see someone else inside her?You'll never really "forget" about the matter. But, you can always forgive.
It's just that you haven't forgiven her fully, and it hurts you that you still hold the grudge of her being with another man. So you inflict images and reminders of that happening.
Yes, you probably do want her to do something.
You're probably thinking, "Why did she get it off so easy?"
"Why is she feeling fine, when I'M the one feeling the agony?"
"I did nothing wrong, and I feel like I'm on the losing end?"
"How could she have done this to me?"
Thus, many rhetorical and unanswered questions are spinning around you. The key to get over this, is to forgive.
It isn't easy, of course. As you'll need a lot of time, and you crave for her to do something. You want her to do something to "make up" for what she did, since it seems pretty clear she didn't really earn back her mistakes. Perhaps, things that require her effort, and things that you'll see, things that you'll learn to realise that she has fully changed, and is willing to pay up for the things she did in the past. So, maybe you go talk to her about it, if you feel the need to. Tell her how you feel, tell her what goes through your mind everyday. The main thing in the relationship is trust and communication. You need to overcome this, to make the relationship successful. So, perhaps the first step is to do that. It might be able to clear a lot of things by comforting. Just be careful of the words you use, as you say you don't want to lose her.
If you still need help, I advise you to do counseling, to overcome yourself first, then going back to the issue.
You just need patience, determination, and communication to fix this issue. It'll take time, but you can do it.
Good luck. :)She had a one night stand and an abortion and whenever I look at her I see someone else inside her?
I hate to say this but you will never forget it. I've been broken up with my ex for over a year now, not even seen him for over a year, and every little thing reminds me that he chose to be with someone else over me. Get rid of her, but I doubt you will forget about it.She had a one night stand and an abortion and whenever I look at her I see someone else inside her?I can't see you ever getting over it. I wouldn't be able to. I'd move on.She had a one night stand and an abortion and whenever I look at her I see someone else inside her?
Just use her like a whoreShe had a one night stand and an abortion and whenever I look at her I see someone else inside her?there is nothing she can do to fix whatever is going on inside of you. she already did her part by being honest with you. get counseling. you are the only one who can fix the issues you are having. and time will ease the pain if you are being proactive. you have to let go of the past.
ps women deal with this kind of thing all the time so if you decide to break up with her at least put in the same effort that she would have put in with you had the situation been switched.She had a one night stand and an abortion and whenever I look at her I see someone else inside her?
Break up. Yes, you screwed up but so did she. Not only that, but for convenience she "aborted" (in my eyes, murdered) her child. You will never be able to forget that. So apologize to her for being a jerk and say "goodbye". Next time, resolve to do better or stay single.
If you truly love her, and I mean really love her. If you're sure that you really don't want anybody else, ask her to marry you.
If she says yes, you can be sure of how much she loves you. She know she did bad, she's tried to make it up to you. Now its your turn. Forgive her. She turned from you because you did not give her what she needed, be it sex or attention. Now that you know you could lose her, be what she needs you to be.
She is not the only one at fault. You neglected her. She ran off with him. You both did wrong. She's sorry, but now its your turn to be sorry and change.
Or dump her. Plain and simple. If you won't put anything into this and admit you need to change as well, then end it before she dumps you for treating her so bad.
My friend had a one night stand.....important please answer!!!?
my friend and i went to a club and she saw a very well known......ok it was a celeb. they got talking (i saw them chatting at the bar) and i left early. she told me they had sex and now she thinks shes in love with him but i think he intended it to be a one night stand....she wants to get into contact with him but thatd be almost impossible and even if she did what if she gets hurt? (rejected)
im the only one shes told and no i am not lying. what should i do or tell her?My friend had a one night stand.....important please answer!!!?You have to tell her that she has to get over him because he isn't coming back. He doesn't want her in that way.
You should make this really clear to her and stop her complaining and pining after him. My friend had a one night stand.....important please answer!!!?
One night stand ~ she better just realize it was and move on but Goodness I hope they used a condom My friend had a one night stand.....important please answer!!!?Why would you tell this story and not tell who it was! your friend is stupid and a groupie! That got played she should've tried to get pregnant from him cause she would be set for life!My friend had a one night stand.....important please answer!!!?
Well then if it wasnt her first time then she should be fine letting him go!!!
Who was the Celeb???My friend had a one night stand.....important please answer!!!?That sounds like a girl i know and the guy was not really that well know but she went to an album release at a record store na d saw him..then we ent to a bar where he was playing and went to an after party and she slept with him they did have a short relationship but he was carreer minded so.... As you can imagine he was with a new girl not long after this making out at the bar after one of his shows.My friend had a one night stand.....important please answer!!!?
tell her she's not in love , she may not talk to you but when she know's the truth she'll come back to you
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im the only one shes told and no i am not lying. what should i do or tell her?My friend had a one night stand.....important please answer!!!?You have to tell her that she has to get over him because he isn't coming back. He doesn't want her in that way.
You should make this really clear to her and stop her complaining and pining after him. My friend had a one night stand.....important please answer!!!?
One night stand ~ she better just realize it was and move on but Goodness I hope they used a condom My friend had a one night stand.....important please answer!!!?Why would you tell this story and not tell who it was! your friend is stupid and a groupie! That got played she should've tried to get pregnant from him cause she would be set for life!My friend had a one night stand.....important please answer!!!?
Well then if it wasnt her first time then she should be fine letting him go!!!
Who was the Celeb???My friend had a one night stand.....important please answer!!!?That sounds like a girl i know and the guy was not really that well know but she went to an album release at a record store na d saw him..then we ent to a bar where he was playing and went to an after party and she slept with him they did have a short relationship but he was carreer minded so.... As you can imagine he was with a new girl not long after this making out at the bar after one of his shows.My friend had a one night stand.....important please answer!!!?
tell her she's not in love , she may not talk to you but when she know's the truth she'll come back to you
cause she's definitely going to get hurt
My husband has had one night stands with women before he met me.?
First of all, I would like to state that me and my husband are very happy together and we've been together 5 year. He is almost the perfect man.
The thing that's bothering me is I found out from him that he's had 2 one night stands with women before he met me. One night stand meaning blowjobs and hand jobs. He's also had sex with one other woman before me. I lost my virginity with him.
The issue is, he had always acted like he was so gentlemen like(sorry, I'm bad with words) that I never thought that at one point in his life he would stoop so low to have one night stands with women. It unnerves me and I've told him how I felt. But he told me he can't undo the past. He never said he was stupid for it or that he regretted it. It makes me so upset he would do something like that for the heck of it. I thought he was different from other men.
NOTE: I still love him and we are still very happy together, but this comes to mind every so often and I get very depressed. I don't have anyone I could talk to. Please help me.My husband has had one night stands with women before he met me.?what happens in the past stays in the past. you keep bring this up all you are going to do is cause problems... thats why they are called one night stand everything goes.. and you know what you should be proud that you saved your virginity for that special someone, but if you keep bring up the past that had nothing to do with you your just going to push him away. drop it and leave it alone... and if your still very happy then you shouldn't be bring up these one night stands.,My husband has had one night stands with women before he met me.?
This man did this before he met you so i dont know what the issue is, why are you so uneasy about this this man? obviously he loves you dont worry sweetie that's his past and your his future sure he's been naughty but that was before he met you so just focus on your man and your marriage.My husband has had one night stands with women before he met me.?What happened in the past should stay in the past. Fact is your man isn't perfect and hey neither are you so get over yourself! What he did sexually before he met you is really none of your business. What matters is how he has been since he met you! This is why people should never tell their current partners about past sexual experiments!
Why should he have to tell you it was stupid and that he regrets it???? what happened before he met you is his business and it isn't your place to pass judgement. You seem pretty tightly wound. Stop being such a prissy little prude and grow up...it's not that big of a deal.My husband has had one night stands with women before he met me.?EDIT: Obviously you thumb-down every answerer that doesn't agree with you and let you pity, pity, pity and whine.
Well, you pay for your sadness.
YOU DECIDE HOW YOU'RE GOING TO FEEL.
So don't ask us if you don't want our perspective.My husband has had one night stands with women before he met me.?
People do stupid things when there young. Alcohol was probably a factor. maybe not. Hes right he can't undo the past but he can learn from it and know what he did was foolish.
ok, so now you know he isn't different from other men meaning he likes sex.
at least he don't like d*ck.
quit complaininMy husband has had one night stands with women before he met me.?
you going to bring unwanted trouble into your life if his past bothers you.
let it alone.
So?
All happened before you were around?
Grow up and stop acting like a wack job
you are making a big deal out of something that is not a big deal and also happened in the past. you need to get over it. he's with you now isnt he? it is not necessary for him to feel stupid or regret his past. he is not the one having a problem with it...you are. its actually ok for him to have the opinion that what he did in the past was fun and have a good memory of it. that has nothing to do with how he feels about you. you are causing problems with your insecurities. you need to leave it alone now
Sorry. One night stands would also bother me, but on the other hand he sounds like he respects women more than a lot of other men do, since he has had so few partners. It sounds to me like he would undo the past if he could, so he probably regrets it even if he's not saying that explicitly. A lot of men aren't strong enough to ignore their hormones and have casual sex but for me the real issue would be whether you feel loved or not. Like my former husband had a girlfriend before me and it never bothered me until I started to feel ignored and that's when I got all bothered by his past. And thinking and talking about it just made it worse. I realize the real issue wasn't the past but the present. If you are happy with your husband you're lucky.
why did he even bother to tell you? must have known it would bother you.
this is a perfect example of why people should keep their sex life to themselves,yes,even from spouses. it doesn't make a bit of difference,only causes one to have resentment.
13 years with 1st wife,no idea of her sexual past.
18 years with 2nd wife,only limited info about her sexual past. we both know it does not matter.
you need to get past this or you will never be happily married.
Uh..what is the problem? Millions and trillions of people on this earth have had one night stands. It is something that is rather common among normal people. You seem to be the exception and that is ok..great for you. Just leave the man alone and wait for a real problem. If he has had only three women in his life then you ought to be showing him off and waiving a banner instead of whining about it. Be glad that he experienced others before you so he could chose the right one for him for life. Now..get out there and apologize to him for being so silly about this very trivial matter and leave him alone.
The thing that's bothering me is I found out from him that he's had 2 one night stands with women before he met me. One night stand meaning blowjobs and hand jobs. He's also had sex with one other woman before me. I lost my virginity with him.
The issue is, he had always acted like he was so gentlemen like(sorry, I'm bad with words) that I never thought that at one point in his life he would stoop so low to have one night stands with women. It unnerves me and I've told him how I felt. But he told me he can't undo the past. He never said he was stupid for it or that he regretted it. It makes me so upset he would do something like that for the heck of it. I thought he was different from other men.
NOTE: I still love him and we are still very happy together, but this comes to mind every so often and I get very depressed. I don't have anyone I could talk to. Please help me.My husband has had one night stands with women before he met me.?what happens in the past stays in the past. you keep bring this up all you are going to do is cause problems... thats why they are called one night stand everything goes.. and you know what you should be proud that you saved your virginity for that special someone, but if you keep bring up the past that had nothing to do with you your just going to push him away. drop it and leave it alone... and if your still very happy then you shouldn't be bring up these one night stands.,My husband has had one night stands with women before he met me.?
This man did this before he met you so i dont know what the issue is, why are you so uneasy about this this man? obviously he loves you dont worry sweetie that's his past and your his future sure he's been naughty but that was before he met you so just focus on your man and your marriage.My husband has had one night stands with women before he met me.?What happened in the past should stay in the past. Fact is your man isn't perfect and hey neither are you so get over yourself! What he did sexually before he met you is really none of your business. What matters is how he has been since he met you! This is why people should never tell their current partners about past sexual experiments!
Why should he have to tell you it was stupid and that he regrets it???? what happened before he met you is his business and it isn't your place to pass judgement. You seem pretty tightly wound. Stop being such a prissy little prude and grow up...it's not that big of a deal.My husband has had one night stands with women before he met me.?EDIT: Obviously you thumb-down every answerer that doesn't agree with you and let you pity, pity, pity and whine.
Well, you pay for your sadness.
YOU DECIDE HOW YOU'RE GOING TO FEEL.
So don't ask us if you don't want our perspective.My husband has had one night stands with women before he met me.?
People do stupid things when there young. Alcohol was probably a factor. maybe not. Hes right he can't undo the past but he can learn from it and know what he did was foolish.
ok, so now you know he isn't different from other men meaning he likes sex.
at least he don't like d*ck.
quit complaininMy husband has had one night stands with women before he met me.?
you going to bring unwanted trouble into your life if his past bothers you.
let it alone.
So?
All happened before you were around?
Grow up and stop acting like a wack job
you are making a big deal out of something that is not a big deal and also happened in the past. you need to get over it. he's with you now isnt he? it is not necessary for him to feel stupid or regret his past. he is not the one having a problem with it...you are. its actually ok for him to have the opinion that what he did in the past was fun and have a good memory of it. that has nothing to do with how he feels about you. you are causing problems with your insecurities. you need to leave it alone now
Sorry. One night stands would also bother me, but on the other hand he sounds like he respects women more than a lot of other men do, since he has had so few partners. It sounds to me like he would undo the past if he could, so he probably regrets it even if he's not saying that explicitly. A lot of men aren't strong enough to ignore their hormones and have casual sex but for me the real issue would be whether you feel loved or not. Like my former husband had a girlfriend before me and it never bothered me until I started to feel ignored and that's when I got all bothered by his past. And thinking and talking about it just made it worse. I realize the real issue wasn't the past but the present. If you are happy with your husband you're lucky.
why did he even bother to tell you? must have known it would bother you.
this is a perfect example of why people should keep their sex life to themselves,yes,even from spouses. it doesn't make a bit of difference,only causes one to have resentment.
13 years with 1st wife,no idea of her sexual past.
18 years with 2nd wife,only limited info about her sexual past. we both know it does not matter.
you need to get past this or you will never be happily married.
Uh..what is the problem? Millions and trillions of people on this earth have had one night stands. It is something that is rather common among normal people. You seem to be the exception and that is ok..great for you. Just leave the man alone and wait for a real problem. If he has had only three women in his life then you ought to be showing him off and waiving a banner instead of whining about it. Be glad that he experienced others before you so he could chose the right one for him for life. Now..get out there and apologize to him for being so silly about this very trivial matter and leave him alone.
Not into one night stands?
This girl has asked me to make love to her as one of her mates has told her which would be an ex/ex that im exciting in bed why i cant possibly say why shes bothered in saying this but how do i mention to this girl that the last thing i am interested in is a one night stand without heer thinking im not interested? Shes a really nice girl but all shes interested in is sex and that dont do it for me never has but shes worth dateing and getting to know as she has many other qualities apart from the fact that she can sleep with someone without really knowing them or dateing them so how would you girls react to a response to this and how would you feel about the bloke if he blew you out because he doesnt do one night stands ??Not into one night stands?No need to be rude people, the guys asking a personal question!!!
Well, seeing as she sounded like a very...sexual girl, then i'm guessing she was probably a little insulted that you didn't want to have sex with her. Maybe she said something like "Your loss" but her ego was proabaly bruised, she may even be wondering what was wrong with her because she offered sex and you turned it down, which is against the social norm. She's probably a little upset or angery and might make up excuses on your end which are most likely unture (like your gay or something).
Personally, i'm not into one night stands either, i perfer meaningful relationships over loveless sex anyday. I think it's sweet that you are the same way, it's horrible that guys are expected to be sex-obsessed horndogs.Not into one night stands?
do itNot into one night stands?ewww dude get a life!
MERRY CHRISTMAS
ill do it 4 u... but anyways y not have sex w/her? enjoy it or she will hate you. also depends on your age to so whateva.Not into one night stands?LOL. I never met a man who didnt do one night stands. Oh lord help me theres something wrong with youre wiring. **** im gonna die of laughter here at my desk.Not into one night stands?
be like well im not into sex on the first date
lets take this slow and say how much you like her and everything sweet.
what?Not into one night stands?
Yeah, right. pfft.
one night stands are amazingg./:
Tell her how you feel. she shouldn't pressure into anything!
Tecnically, its your call cause your the guy!
I'd respect your decision to not take a one night stand. Ask her if you can take her out on a date, and see where it goes from there. If she's only after sex then leave her to someone else. You sound like you have too much respect for yourself to just go sleeping around.
dooooo ittttt!!!!
i think if i asked a guy for a one night stand and he rejected me it wouldn't be that bad, probably a little crushing because i'd feel like i wasn't attractive, but then if you go on to tell her that you want to date her and get to know her and that meaningless sex just isn't your thing i wouldn't feel that bad. but if this girl is looking to have sex i dont really think dating and a relationship is what she would want right now. you can try but i dont know how it would work out.
be honest tell her how you feel
Let her find someone into one night stands.
She is missing out on having a good relationship..pity.
You will find a girl who wil appreciate you.
As nice as she maybe this is not the type of girl you should start dating. Every guy that she has done that to will be laughing at you, and she might not be one of the most faithful people. Please go with you instinct on this one, find you another nice young lady, who doesnt want to have sex with people they dont know just to see how good it is.
maybe if you are exciting in bed it will peek her intertest in you more and you can date her.
either way i dont understand why you are typing on yahoo answers instead of tapping that ***
I would never be in that position hopefully.....but i would most definitely respect you for the fact that almost every guy would jump at the chance to get some sweet sex no strings attached ,,,,,so I'd think your a keeper and try to work on getting the whole package instead.
If you don't wanna have sex with women YOU'RE GAY!
id probably be rather mad but yea maybe you shouldnt date her because i if shes into sex that much she could probably cheat without a second thought
so yea...i wouldnt date her unless you really have strong feelings for her.
You answered your own question, you should just say exactly what you said here. If she doens't appreciate your honesty and integrity then she's not worth it!
OMG u must be one in a million!!!!!
Tell her you would like to get to know her first before going any further, just be honest, if she don't love that then she's a sl*g.
Tell her what you told us.
Girls who are just into one night stands are not worth it. They'll be doing that sh*t their whole lives. If you don't wanna do it, then don't do it.
You say she's worth dating - why not ask her on a date? Otherwise, just be honest with her that you're not into one-night stands. It's her job to respect that. There is the danger that she won't believe you, but you can't do anything about that except tell the truth.
ADDED: From your additional details, it sounds like maybe she may just be too fast for you, i.e. you aren't compatible. I think you're just going to have to do what women have been doing most of the time, letting her have the goodnight kiss and then coyly saying goodnight or whatever, saying "I'm not ready yet" and things like that. I dunno man, thinking about it, this doesn't seem like a problem for you really. I don't get the impression you have much to lose either way. You two are going to give it a try and see if it works out. Sometimes people compromise their standards and see what that gets them. Sometimes they hold their ground. Either way, you never said you really are into this girl or anything, so if things don't work out, you'll be able to walk away from it without feeling bad. Just keep being honest. Your sincerity is your safety ticket through this experience.
I'd respect the guy a whole hell of a lot more than I respected myself (if I did one night stands, which I don't). I'd actually be a little ashamed of myself, but not if the guy actually told me he wanted a relationship. Just tell her the truth about how you feel toward her, if you're willing to overlook the fact that she's willing to have a one night stand.
Just tell her that you are interested, but you dont want to jump to things too fast! I recomend waiting until your married to have sex...its the right thing to do...but a lot of people do that anyway because they think they will be satisfied but they arent...they are really searching for Jesus' love!
Just say you're looking for a real relationship and not just meaningless sex. I respect that Idea. You're kind of like that guy in "Good Luck Chuck".
I think its a good thing if you turn her offer down god knows how many blokes she,s been with!
Well, seeing as she sounded like a very...sexual girl, then i'm guessing she was probably a little insulted that you didn't want to have sex with her. Maybe she said something like "Your loss" but her ego was proabaly bruised, she may even be wondering what was wrong with her because she offered sex and you turned it down, which is against the social norm. She's probably a little upset or angery and might make up excuses on your end which are most likely unture (like your gay or something).
Personally, i'm not into one night stands either, i perfer meaningful relationships over loveless sex anyday. I think it's sweet that you are the same way, it's horrible that guys are expected to be sex-obsessed horndogs.Not into one night stands?
do itNot into one night stands?ewww dude get a life!
MERRY CHRISTMAS
ill do it 4 u... but anyways y not have sex w/her? enjoy it or she will hate you. also depends on your age to so whateva.Not into one night stands?LOL. I never met a man who didnt do one night stands. Oh lord help me theres something wrong with youre wiring. **** im gonna die of laughter here at my desk.Not into one night stands?
be like well im not into sex on the first date
lets take this slow and say how much you like her and everything sweet.
what?Not into one night stands?
Yeah, right. pfft.
one night stands are amazingg./:
Tell her how you feel. she shouldn't pressure into anything!
Tecnically, its your call cause your the guy!
I'd respect your decision to not take a one night stand. Ask her if you can take her out on a date, and see where it goes from there. If she's only after sex then leave her to someone else. You sound like you have too much respect for yourself to just go sleeping around.
dooooo ittttt!!!!
i think if i asked a guy for a one night stand and he rejected me it wouldn't be that bad, probably a little crushing because i'd feel like i wasn't attractive, but then if you go on to tell her that you want to date her and get to know her and that meaningless sex just isn't your thing i wouldn't feel that bad. but if this girl is looking to have sex i dont really think dating and a relationship is what she would want right now. you can try but i dont know how it would work out.
be honest tell her how you feel
Let her find someone into one night stands.
She is missing out on having a good relationship..pity.
You will find a girl who wil appreciate you.
As nice as she maybe this is not the type of girl you should start dating. Every guy that she has done that to will be laughing at you, and she might not be one of the most faithful people. Please go with you instinct on this one, find you another nice young lady, who doesnt want to have sex with people they dont know just to see how good it is.
maybe if you are exciting in bed it will peek her intertest in you more and you can date her.
either way i dont understand why you are typing on yahoo answers instead of tapping that ***
I would never be in that position hopefully.....but i would most definitely respect you for the fact that almost every guy would jump at the chance to get some sweet sex no strings attached ,,,,,so I'd think your a keeper and try to work on getting the whole package instead.
If you don't wanna have sex with women YOU'RE GAY!
id probably be rather mad but yea maybe you shouldnt date her because i if shes into sex that much she could probably cheat without a second thought
so yea...i wouldnt date her unless you really have strong feelings for her.
You answered your own question, you should just say exactly what you said here. If she doens't appreciate your honesty and integrity then she's not worth it!
OMG u must be one in a million!!!!!
Tell her you would like to get to know her first before going any further, just be honest, if she don't love that then she's a sl*g.
Tell her what you told us.
Girls who are just into one night stands are not worth it. They'll be doing that sh*t their whole lives. If you don't wanna do it, then don't do it.
You say she's worth dating - why not ask her on a date? Otherwise, just be honest with her that you're not into one-night stands. It's her job to respect that. There is the danger that she won't believe you, but you can't do anything about that except tell the truth.
ADDED: From your additional details, it sounds like maybe she may just be too fast for you, i.e. you aren't compatible. I think you're just going to have to do what women have been doing most of the time, letting her have the goodnight kiss and then coyly saying goodnight or whatever, saying "I'm not ready yet" and things like that. I dunno man, thinking about it, this doesn't seem like a problem for you really. I don't get the impression you have much to lose either way. You two are going to give it a try and see if it works out. Sometimes people compromise their standards and see what that gets them. Sometimes they hold their ground. Either way, you never said you really are into this girl or anything, so if things don't work out, you'll be able to walk away from it without feeling bad. Just keep being honest. Your sincerity is your safety ticket through this experience.
I'd respect the guy a whole hell of a lot more than I respected myself (if I did one night stands, which I don't). I'd actually be a little ashamed of myself, but not if the guy actually told me he wanted a relationship. Just tell her the truth about how you feel toward her, if you're willing to overlook the fact that she's willing to have a one night stand.
Just tell her that you are interested, but you dont want to jump to things too fast! I recomend waiting until your married to have sex...its the right thing to do...but a lot of people do that anyway because they think they will be satisfied but they arent...they are really searching for Jesus' love!
Just say you're looking for a real relationship and not just meaningless sex. I respect that Idea. You're kind of like that guy in "Good Luck Chuck".
I think its a good thing if you turn her offer down god knows how many blokes she,s been with!
Does sex feel better when you are in love?
Or is it just like having a one night stand? Also, aside from the love, does it depend on how good the person you sleep with is in bed?Does sex feel better when you are in love?I've only slept with one person before. We WERE in love and that was probably the most fulfilling sex we had, emotionally above all, but there was passion in the sex too. It was really "making love". But then he fell out of love with me and the sex felt terrible. That comfort I felt before wasnt there anymore. It just wasn't the same, something was missing.Does sex feel better when you are in love?
Yeah, I think it is cause it's less about "being good" at it, and more about just being close to the person you love and that is nice.Does sex feel better when you are in love?you must first be in love before the chemicals in the brain gives you that feel good feeling. if you are in love the sex will get better over time.remember love first then sex
do you mean emotionally? yes.
physically? its the same.Does sex feel better when you are in love?When your in love it means more. When your not in love its just a pleasure fulfillment.Does sex feel better when you are in love?
actually it's worse
defintalyy!Does sex feel better when you are in love?
sex is awesome when your in love with someone
Yeah, I think it is cause it's less about "being good" at it, and more about just being close to the person you love and that is nice.Does sex feel better when you are in love?you must first be in love before the chemicals in the brain gives you that feel good feeling. if you are in love the sex will get better over time.remember love first then sex
do you mean emotionally? yes.
physically? its the same.Does sex feel better when you are in love?When your in love it means more. When your not in love its just a pleasure fulfillment.Does sex feel better when you are in love?
actually it's worse
defintalyy!Does sex feel better when you are in love?
sex is awesome when your in love with someone
What do you think of a one night stand?
One Night Stand
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it was but Sex,
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or WE.
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Listen:
It was a
one time, one night stand.
the one time I lost it,
my Virginity.What do you think of a one night stand?*FacepalmWhat do you think of a one night stand?one night stands are disgusting! i found out the guy i like has had 6 solid one night stands, im think what happen to the rest that aren't solid. that hasnt put me off him though but now i have to consider the possibilities of him cheating on me or worse having something nasty i might get.What do you think of a one night stand?this is why we try and try so hard to tell young women about this, but to really try to talk to a female is like talking to a brick house......until this happens..u ladys have to talk to each other cause daddy and mommy seem to have no effect on dumb girls hormones...this poor poor yong girl, finally gave her cooch up, and now the guy id off getting more cooch......ashame, ladys u need learn your your friends lessons!!!!What do you think of a one night stand?
Horrible
three nights,
two nights,
one night,
Stand.
three times,
two times,
one time,
Listen.
you took my Virginity.
something that I didn鈥檛 give much
Thought,
until Now.
I was so
Happy.
I had finally lost,
it.
I bragged to my friends,
they all laughed and smiled,
Congrats,
they all said.
Again, I wanted to see,
You,
I missed,
You.
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don鈥檛 make it more than that,
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Love,
was all she said.
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but it could not be,
because there was never, Two
or WE.
three times, three nights,
two times, two nights,
one time, one night,
Listen:
It was a
one time, one night stand.
the one time I lost it,
my Virginity.What do you think of a one night stand?*FacepalmWhat do you think of a one night stand?one night stands are disgusting! i found out the guy i like has had 6 solid one night stands, im think what happen to the rest that aren't solid. that hasnt put me off him though but now i have to consider the possibilities of him cheating on me or worse having something nasty i might get.What do you think of a one night stand?this is why we try and try so hard to tell young women about this, but to really try to talk to a female is like talking to a brick house......until this happens..u ladys have to talk to each other cause daddy and mommy seem to have no effect on dumb girls hormones...this poor poor yong girl, finally gave her cooch up, and now the guy id off getting more cooch......ashame, ladys u need learn your your friends lessons!!!!What do you think of a one night stand?
Horrible
After my regrettable one night stand...please help.?
I made the very foolish mistake of having a one night stand and admitting it to my partner for various reasons, I wanted to be honest with him, i couldnt live with myself. When I realised how devestated he was and how much he actually did love me, I slightly changed my story to do damage limitation because I love him with all my heart. Then I couldnt keep up with what I had said, and he took half of it the wrong way because I didnt explain myself properley.
Then he went to see the other guy, and he told him the truth also (our stories obviously matched but he was dubious, and who can blame him)
Its been 6 weeks since I told him, and he is desperately trying to forgive me, but he says now he knows who and where and at what time, he cant listen to certain TV programmes or songs or drive through certain places. He has flashes of rage and anger and violance and flashes of heartbreaking crying. He says it is a living and breathing monster not and I have allowed him to find out so much. he says I am doing nothing (even though I am pledging my love to him and apologising over and over) just carrying on like normal. he says I should have battled it out etc etc. He says I cant just tell him i love him, because I always told him that. I need to show him. How? Please help.After my regrettable one night stand...please help.?You tramps need to learn that even when guys ask for them, they don't need details. Its entertainment enough to rip his heart out. Do you really need to eat it right in front of him, too?After my regrettable one night stand...please help.?
It's good that you told him, now you need to give him time to trust you again. It won't happen overnight. Saying the words doesn't mean much, actions speak louder than words. Eventually he is going to have to forgive you and move past it or leave altogether.
It will most likely be a long and difficult road ahead of you both and I wish you the best of luck getting past it.After my regrettable one night stand...please help.?Ya know ... some things can't be fixed.
Why are you in here asking US, instead of groveling on the floor in front of HIM, asking HIM what he needs you to do to show him?
Frankly, you don't deserve him.
obviously he would be devastated! he will recover slowly but definately. Patience please.After my regrettable one night stand...please help.?fix him up with a nice girl...After my regrettable one night stand...please help.?
I have been there, done that except I was the one who was cheated on. There is nothing you can do that will be an immediate fix. Betrayal is very difficult to overcome, and most people never overcome it completely.
Your words are definitely sounding like BS to him right now, no matter how sincere you may be. After my husband's affair, I wanted every detail of where he was, who he was with, when he would be home, etc......his cell phone was required to be an open book and I compared what I found with what the cell company said his calls were just to be sure he hadn't deleted anything. Basically, everything about him HAD to be an open book to begin the process of me trusting him again.
It's been two years now and although I feel like I trust him completely now.......small things will still cause me to doubt him sometimes, even if those doubts are really unwarranted. I still find myself periodically checking his phone and his phone records......just to reassure myself that I'm not being played again. (So far so good btw)
Your partner's reaction to all this is very normal and doesn't surprise me at all. You will be questioned and doubted on a regular basis for a while. Your actions have to prove that you can be trusted. Your partner will probably be doing alot of checking behind you just to see if you are being honest. If you can't handle that, then I suggest you get out of the relationship. That's simply the price you pay for stepping out.
You have broken the bond of trust and the way he is acting you may or may not get it back with him.
How can you be so in love with him and yet you had a one night stand with another man? That is why he don't want to hear "I love you" coming out of your mouth.
Only time will tell if he will ever trust you again. You just have to bite the bullet and be on your best behavior at all times.
It will not be easy to mend this relationship but if you really want him then give it your best shot.
Good luck...you are going to need it.After my regrettable one night stand...please help.?
well first off you didn't understand the rules of the game and that is you never, never, ever tell. Now you don't understand the second rule and that is guys can't handle it. A lot of women forgive and accept and move on but men can't do it. You and him are done and over unless you are going to be happy being his slave and that's no relationship. Its over, its done he can't handle it and he never will.
I went through the SAME thing with my wife. I confronted both her and the other guy and found out TOO MUCH information. Since I found that information out every time I go pass a hotel that they used or hear a certain song ALL I THINK about is what she did.. The bad thing about it is this happened 8 years ago and I still think about it.
There are some things that you can't fix but you can show your partner that he is number one in your life by giving him all your love.
My wife calls me all the time to let me know where she is, tells me to stop by her work place to see her and doesn't go out AT ALL..All of this helps and that's why I'm still with her but I still don't trust her and I still have not forgotten what she did.
You can never undo what has happened and my only advice is accept the consequences and repercussions that goes with your action. You are weak, and you placed yourself in a very vulnerable position wherein the one night stand easily occured. And you broke the heart and ruined the life of a person who truly loved and cared for you in exchange for what, a night of pleasure with a stranger whose only interest is what is underneath your pants. A lifetime of regrets and guilt for seconds of earthly bliss and pleasure. and now you ask yourself, was it worth it?traffic cameras italian english translation oil change brazilian steakhouse
Then he went to see the other guy, and he told him the truth also (our stories obviously matched but he was dubious, and who can blame him)
Its been 6 weeks since I told him, and he is desperately trying to forgive me, but he says now he knows who and where and at what time, he cant listen to certain TV programmes or songs or drive through certain places. He has flashes of rage and anger and violance and flashes of heartbreaking crying. He says it is a living and breathing monster not and I have allowed him to find out so much. he says I am doing nothing (even though I am pledging my love to him and apologising over and over) just carrying on like normal. he says I should have battled it out etc etc. He says I cant just tell him i love him, because I always told him that. I need to show him. How? Please help.After my regrettable one night stand...please help.?You tramps need to learn that even when guys ask for them, they don't need details. Its entertainment enough to rip his heart out. Do you really need to eat it right in front of him, too?After my regrettable one night stand...please help.?
It's good that you told him, now you need to give him time to trust you again. It won't happen overnight. Saying the words doesn't mean much, actions speak louder than words. Eventually he is going to have to forgive you and move past it or leave altogether.
It will most likely be a long and difficult road ahead of you both and I wish you the best of luck getting past it.After my regrettable one night stand...please help.?Ya know ... some things can't be fixed.
Why are you in here asking US, instead of groveling on the floor in front of HIM, asking HIM what he needs you to do to show him?
Frankly, you don't deserve him.
obviously he would be devastated! he will recover slowly but definately. Patience please.After my regrettable one night stand...please help.?fix him up with a nice girl...After my regrettable one night stand...please help.?
I have been there, done that except I was the one who was cheated on. There is nothing you can do that will be an immediate fix. Betrayal is very difficult to overcome, and most people never overcome it completely.
Your words are definitely sounding like BS to him right now, no matter how sincere you may be. After my husband's affair, I wanted every detail of where he was, who he was with, when he would be home, etc......his cell phone was required to be an open book and I compared what I found with what the cell company said his calls were just to be sure he hadn't deleted anything. Basically, everything about him HAD to be an open book to begin the process of me trusting him again.
It's been two years now and although I feel like I trust him completely now.......small things will still cause me to doubt him sometimes, even if those doubts are really unwarranted. I still find myself periodically checking his phone and his phone records......just to reassure myself that I'm not being played again. (So far so good btw)
Your partner's reaction to all this is very normal and doesn't surprise me at all. You will be questioned and doubted on a regular basis for a while. Your actions have to prove that you can be trusted. Your partner will probably be doing alot of checking behind you just to see if you are being honest. If you can't handle that, then I suggest you get out of the relationship. That's simply the price you pay for stepping out.
You have broken the bond of trust and the way he is acting you may or may not get it back with him.
How can you be so in love with him and yet you had a one night stand with another man? That is why he don't want to hear "I love you" coming out of your mouth.
Only time will tell if he will ever trust you again. You just have to bite the bullet and be on your best behavior at all times.
It will not be easy to mend this relationship but if you really want him then give it your best shot.
Good luck...you are going to need it.After my regrettable one night stand...please help.?
well first off you didn't understand the rules of the game and that is you never, never, ever tell. Now you don't understand the second rule and that is guys can't handle it. A lot of women forgive and accept and move on but men can't do it. You and him are done and over unless you are going to be happy being his slave and that's no relationship. Its over, its done he can't handle it and he never will.
I went through the SAME thing with my wife. I confronted both her and the other guy and found out TOO MUCH information. Since I found that information out every time I go pass a hotel that they used or hear a certain song ALL I THINK about is what she did.. The bad thing about it is this happened 8 years ago and I still think about it.
There are some things that you can't fix but you can show your partner that he is number one in your life by giving him all your love.
My wife calls me all the time to let me know where she is, tells me to stop by her work place to see her and doesn't go out AT ALL..All of this helps and that's why I'm still with her but I still don't trust her and I still have not forgotten what she did.
You can never undo what has happened and my only advice is accept the consequences and repercussions that goes with your action. You are weak, and you placed yourself in a very vulnerable position wherein the one night stand easily occured. And you broke the heart and ruined the life of a person who truly loved and cared for you in exchange for what, a night of pleasure with a stranger whose only interest is what is underneath your pants. A lifetime of regrets and guilt for seconds of earthly bliss and pleasure. and now you ask yourself, was it worth it?
Should i forgive girlfriend one night stand?
1 day your girlfriend come and tell you she ever one night stand with one of her friend before u two know each other which was few years ago how will u react%26amp;feel?
every times i thought about the one night stand incident i will pissed off..if she done it with her boy friend i don't mind,just a friend they both went out together,after that her friend send her home that time her parents was not at home so both of them done it.even thought it was past things and when she one night stand time i dun even know her,i know its kinda naive,but i'm very sensitive in this kind of issue,what should i do?should i just forget about the past?if yes,please tell me how,i do love her very much and want to be with her for the rest of my life but i cant stop thinking about it
so please help me and guide me
thanks!Should i forgive girlfriend one night stand?Honey chill out, she's being honest with you .
Which means she cares ..alot for you.
Also, past life is what makes a person who they are today. the person who you know now!
If you really do love her then you'll except her past and future, and be grateful your apart of it!
xxShould i forgive girlfriend one night stand?
Dude, it happened way before she met you. If you can't get over something that happened before you came into her life then end the relationship.Should i forgive girlfriend one night stand?It's the past let it go, maybe she's changed and matured since then. If your really want a future, you can't stay with her past. Ask her if she regret's it or how did it affect their friendship and etc.Should i forgive girlfriend one night stand?
Everyone has a past. Leave it alone.
If she did it with your best friend while you were visiting your sick grandma, THEN i would be pissed!Should i forgive girlfriend one night stand?she is an honest girl , stick with her , u wont regret it .
every times i thought about the one night stand incident i will pissed off..if she done it with her boy friend i don't mind,just a friend they both went out together,after that her friend send her home that time her parents was not at home so both of them done it.even thought it was past things and when she one night stand time i dun even know her,i know its kinda naive,but i'm very sensitive in this kind of issue,what should i do?should i just forget about the past?if yes,please tell me how,i do love her very much and want to be with her for the rest of my life but i cant stop thinking about it
so please help me and guide me
thanks!Should i forgive girlfriend one night stand?Honey chill out, she's being honest with you .
Which means she cares ..alot for you.
Also, past life is what makes a person who they are today. the person who you know now!
If you really do love her then you'll except her past and future, and be grateful your apart of it!
xxShould i forgive girlfriend one night stand?
Dude, it happened way before she met you. If you can't get over something that happened before you came into her life then end the relationship.Should i forgive girlfriend one night stand?It's the past let it go, maybe she's changed and matured since then. If your really want a future, you can't stay with her past. Ask her if she regret's it or how did it affect their friendship and etc.Should i forgive girlfriend one night stand?
Everyone has a past. Leave it alone.
If she did it with your best friend while you were visiting your sick grandma, THEN i would be pissed!Should i forgive girlfriend one night stand?she is an honest girl , stick with her , u wont regret it .
Question about one night stands?
Obviously its something that everyone does or has done, often with the intention being some "no strings attached" fun. Im 17 so i havent had a real one yet, but im going to university soon and its something thats gonna happen... for those of you who have had your fair share of one night stands, are they really as bad as people say? I know people who practically live off them, and Ive heard people mention theyve had very bad experiences and often feel "used" the following day...
this sounds like a bit of a strange question coming from someone youd expect to love the idea, but i want to know what to expect when i start so i dont get misled. ive had late night hookups with people i dont know, sure, but nothing like a real one night stand... would be great if you could share your thoughts and ideas. thanks.Question about one night stands?"Obviously its something that everyone does or has done"!!!!!!!!!I never ever had a one night stand and have no intentions of having one as i believe something like sex/make love call it whatever you want should be only with someone that you truly likeQuestion about one night stands?
Not if you both agree that's all there is to it.Question about one night stands?I've never had a bad one. I've had some where I've woken up, looked at her and said to myself "What have I done?", lol but that comes with the territory when alcohol is involved.
Actually, it's not something "everyone" does or has done. I know plenty of people that have never done it, nor would ever do it.
Your late night hookups with people you don't know? One-nighters, dude.Question about one night stands?one night stands can be awesome!! but can also be the worst thing that ever happened to you lol literally .. choose your partner wisely and you will always have a good timeQuestion about one night stands?
Yea, Im the perfect person to ask about this.. I constantly have these.. No Their Not Bad at all. As long as the girl is really wet no... Its just like regular sex with Any gurl. Except your just never going to have sex with her ever again... She just wants to do it one time with yu. No Matter if its good with you or not.
I wouldn't say it's obvious, as I and many people that I know never have played a part in a one night stand. You sound like you have pretty low morals expecting and planning for this. Maybe you should focus on school and developing your self-esteem because it's probably pretty low for you to be thinking like this.Question about one night stands?
One night stands are pointless and ultimately hurtful. Sex is something that should be respected, not desecrated for a few hours of physical enjoyment. For one night, you're going to let someone just use your body, but otherwise, they want no part of you.
How do you feel about getting a STD?
Just make sure if your hung up on looks, don't involve alcohol. My friend hooked with a guy and now really regrets it. Just think about what you will think the next day. They are ok if you both want it. But don't try to convince people, it causes drama.
They can be fun, I've heard. A lot like a **** basically, fun with no emotion involved. I wouldn't have one, I see sex as a special thing but I have been tempted. Don't worry, you know your own mind and if you don't think you'll feel used you won't be. It's just a bit of harmless fun, but be protected.
You're probably the best person to know whether you'll perceive it as nothing or get emotional about it afterwards. If you think it will be the former, then I think as long as you have the intentions of it just being a one night thing - and aren't likely to feel used in the morning - then just go for it if you want to have one. But if it's the latter then maybe you shouldn't if you'd rather not risk being hurt by it. And if you only intend to do it because others have or you feel pressured then I don't think it would be a good idea.
They are not all bad, just think of it this way: guys want to get laid as much as possible, so when there are girls at a party who might want the same thing, so why not give each other what the other one wants.
Personally I would say don't do have them in less you don't mind getting a reputation. Once you have a reputation mud sticks and you will struggle to get a girlfriend. However if you do decide to have them make sure the girls you sleep with are fully aware of what they are doing and are aware its not going to lead anywhere. Also make sure you use a condom and be prepared to help the girl out if something goes wrong.
this sounds like a bit of a strange question coming from someone youd expect to love the idea, but i want to know what to expect when i start so i dont get misled. ive had late night hookups with people i dont know, sure, but nothing like a real one night stand... would be great if you could share your thoughts and ideas. thanks.Question about one night stands?"Obviously its something that everyone does or has done"!!!!!!!!!I never ever had a one night stand and have no intentions of having one as i believe something like sex/make love call it whatever you want should be only with someone that you truly likeQuestion about one night stands?
Not if you both agree that's all there is to it.Question about one night stands?I've never had a bad one. I've had some where I've woken up, looked at her and said to myself "What have I done?", lol but that comes with the territory when alcohol is involved.
Actually, it's not something "everyone" does or has done. I know plenty of people that have never done it, nor would ever do it.
Your late night hookups with people you don't know? One-nighters, dude.Question about one night stands?one night stands can be awesome!! but can also be the worst thing that ever happened to you lol literally .. choose your partner wisely and you will always have a good timeQuestion about one night stands?
Yea, Im the perfect person to ask about this.. I constantly have these.. No Their Not Bad at all. As long as the girl is really wet no... Its just like regular sex with Any gurl. Except your just never going to have sex with her ever again... She just wants to do it one time with yu. No Matter if its good with you or not.
I wouldn't say it's obvious, as I and many people that I know never have played a part in a one night stand. You sound like you have pretty low morals expecting and planning for this. Maybe you should focus on school and developing your self-esteem because it's probably pretty low for you to be thinking like this.Question about one night stands?
One night stands are pointless and ultimately hurtful. Sex is something that should be respected, not desecrated for a few hours of physical enjoyment. For one night, you're going to let someone just use your body, but otherwise, they want no part of you.
How do you feel about getting a STD?
Just make sure if your hung up on looks, don't involve alcohol. My friend hooked with a guy and now really regrets it. Just think about what you will think the next day. They are ok if you both want it. But don't try to convince people, it causes drama.
They can be fun, I've heard. A lot like a **** basically, fun with no emotion involved. I wouldn't have one, I see sex as a special thing but I have been tempted. Don't worry, you know your own mind and if you don't think you'll feel used you won't be. It's just a bit of harmless fun, but be protected.
You're probably the best person to know whether you'll perceive it as nothing or get emotional about it afterwards. If you think it will be the former, then I think as long as you have the intentions of it just being a one night thing - and aren't likely to feel used in the morning - then just go for it if you want to have one. But if it's the latter then maybe you shouldn't if you'd rather not risk being hurt by it. And if you only intend to do it because others have or you feel pressured then I don't think it would be a good idea.
They are not all bad, just think of it this way: guys want to get laid as much as possible, so when there are girls at a party who might want the same thing, so why not give each other what the other one wants.
Personally I would say don't do have them in less you don't mind getting a reputation. Once you have a reputation mud sticks and you will struggle to get a girlfriend. However if you do decide to have them make sure the girls you sleep with are fully aware of what they are doing and are aware its not going to lead anywhere. Also make sure you use a condom and be prepared to help the girl out if something goes wrong.
What music do you make love to?
I don't mean music you fcuk to. Or music to get off to with a one night stand. What music do you play when you want to make love? And if you don't know the difference between fcuking and making love then please don't have intercourse because you really shouldn't be ;)
Thanks!What music do you make love to?The sound of no music. Can't wait up DS or else we'd never make love.What music do you make love to?Let's get it on-MArvin Gaye hahaha!!
Thanks!What music do you make love to?The sound of no music. Can't wait up DS or else we'd never make love.What music do you make love to?Let's get it on-MArvin Gaye hahaha!!
Had a one night stand...now what?
im 25 been married for 3 yrs. I had built up extreme hatred for my husband...he is physically/mentally abusive and controlling. We have no children and I honestly refuse to get pregnant by him. I had intentions of getting a divorce. I went on a work trip 6 months ago and had a one night stand. The guy is single and works for the same employer as me but only he lives 12 hours away. We still talk all the time and he confessed to me that he wanted to be with me. I had never even looked at another guy before this. I just had this amazing connection with this man that I had never experienced before. Here a month ago me and my husband finally separated. Then he calls me begging to get back together and he got on some medicine to control his anger. I went back to him....BUT there are 2 things wrong. One I committed adultery and no im not going to tell him cuz im afraid of him...he pushed me over a couch over an innocent message he found on my phone! And two I am obviously having an emotional affair with this guy. I don't love my husband and I don't think I can forgive him for all the bullshit he has put me through. The bottom line...Im not a person that does this. I obviously hate him or I could have never even thought about cheating on him. All I want is LOVE and I never have loved him the way I should. So now I am in a pickle. I go home every day dreading it. I am not saying that this other guy is prince charming but im kinda up for seeing where it goes rather than sittin back and watching my life pass by in misery. I would appreciate opinions...and please don't call me names cuz i know that is everyones first instinct!!Had a one night stand...now what?You have to get out of your marriage. Your husband will only get worse as time goes on. Everything you do will be treated as if you are cheating on him. Your husband will never miraculously change into the man you want him to be. He will always be controlling and abusive. Your best chance to have a healthy "normal" relationship is to find a man who knows how to and wants to treat a woman with the proper dignity and respect she deserves.
You will never know how your relationship with this other guy will turn out unless you get with him. It does not seem like he is the type of guy you want to spend the rest of your life with. Any guy who knowingly has an affair with a married woman is probably not exactly a faithful guy. But he may help you get back on your feet and give you the confidence to move on with the rest of your life.
There are a lot of great guys out there. I know you cn do better than the two guys you are talking about.Had a one night stand...now what?
Everybody deserves to be happy and is ultimately in charge of their own happiness.
Lifes too short.
When a breakup occurs... NEVER go back.
Oh and never cheat again. Get out first.
Goodluck!Had a one night stand...now what?Leave this mess now. Domestic violence ends in death on many occasions, you cheating could be the straw that breaks the camels back.
Leave your husband. He deserves betterHad a one night stand...now what?Be a real woman and hit the road. You're separated...make it final and move on.
We all make mistakes. Some can be fixed some can'tHad a one night stand...now what?
just masturbate
BYE BYE BYEHad a one night stand...now what?
Could you look up the definition of "one night stand" please?
Now what? Lay low and be discreet.
Why did you go back to him then? that's just bizarre.
leave before he finds out and then ur really in trouble. if he hit u when u didn cheat then imagine what he can do if he finds out u did, leave him like now that not cool. y not want to be with someone who treats u better
Leave your husband. You don't love him so the two of you will never be happy. Sounds like you have been through alot of abuse. I would suggest giving yourself some time to heal after you leave and discover once again who YOU really are before trying to jump into another relationship. I would put the brakes on this fairytale whim for now. I call it that because it seems "perfect" now as it is so much better than what you had emotionally at home, and plus, it was your fantasy world outside of your true reality. Don't get swept right in to another relationship before you've even put the first one to rest.
Remember love can be obtained from many sources and doesn't have to come from a romantic relationship. A woman who can make a man happy and truly be happy herself in a relationship, must first learn to stand on her own two feet.
The best of luck to you!
I don't know why you went back ? But you need to be single for a few months before you start dating again anyway. Your young don't in a hurry. Abuse will make you settle for something you don't want. If you need to leave, do it. but take a little time to heal before you start seeing anyone.
Sorry for all your pain.
jp
You may have just discovered yet another paradox in life: the one-night stand with this seemingly "prince charming."
He is gone when you wake up... and maybe you might not ever hear from him again.
So, it just goes to show that life is held up by a weak link in every aspect.
You're worried about being married and the "real" life passing you by... Well, I'm 28 and have never been on a date. Life will pass you by if it wants to. It is not in our hands to change. We can simply decorate it a little differently.
I am in a similar situation, only I have a child. My advice to you would be to get out before that happens. You deserve someone who can love you and treat you kindly. That's why you strayed. Deep inside you know this. You need to just tell him you can't trust him anymore and just don't feel the same. Get a divorce and pursue someone else.. someone who you won't be afraid to have a family with and spend the rest of your life with.. in happiness..
Ur trying to justify ur actions by claiming ur husband to be an awful person... If u don't love him u should not be w/ him. There was no reason to go back to him. If u claim to be scared of him WHY move back into a house w/ him?? I think u need to figure out ur own issues b4 being w/ anyone!! If u don't love ur husband then leave. I don't know if ur on here trying to make people feel sry for u but thats not gonna happen. U did wrong by cheating! If ur husband is abusive towards u then u shoulda left... Cheating was NOT the answer!
You will never know how your relationship with this other guy will turn out unless you get with him. It does not seem like he is the type of guy you want to spend the rest of your life with. Any guy who knowingly has an affair with a married woman is probably not exactly a faithful guy. But he may help you get back on your feet and give you the confidence to move on with the rest of your life.
There are a lot of great guys out there. I know you cn do better than the two guys you are talking about.Had a one night stand...now what?
Everybody deserves to be happy and is ultimately in charge of their own happiness.
Lifes too short.
When a breakup occurs... NEVER go back.
Oh and never cheat again. Get out first.
Goodluck!Had a one night stand...now what?Leave this mess now. Domestic violence ends in death on many occasions, you cheating could be the straw that breaks the camels back.
Leave your husband. He deserves betterHad a one night stand...now what?Be a real woman and hit the road. You're separated...make it final and move on.
We all make mistakes. Some can be fixed some can'tHad a one night stand...now what?
just masturbate
BYE BYE BYEHad a one night stand...now what?
Could you look up the definition of "one night stand" please?
Now what? Lay low and be discreet.
Why did you go back to him then? that's just bizarre.
leave before he finds out and then ur really in trouble. if he hit u when u didn cheat then imagine what he can do if he finds out u did, leave him like now that not cool. y not want to be with someone who treats u better
Leave your husband. You don't love him so the two of you will never be happy. Sounds like you have been through alot of abuse. I would suggest giving yourself some time to heal after you leave and discover once again who YOU really are before trying to jump into another relationship. I would put the brakes on this fairytale whim for now. I call it that because it seems "perfect" now as it is so much better than what you had emotionally at home, and plus, it was your fantasy world outside of your true reality. Don't get swept right in to another relationship before you've even put the first one to rest.
Remember love can be obtained from many sources and doesn't have to come from a romantic relationship. A woman who can make a man happy and truly be happy herself in a relationship, must first learn to stand on her own two feet.
The best of luck to you!
I don't know why you went back ? But you need to be single for a few months before you start dating again anyway. Your young don't in a hurry. Abuse will make you settle for something you don't want. If you need to leave, do it. but take a little time to heal before you start seeing anyone.
Sorry for all your pain.
jp
You may have just discovered yet another paradox in life: the one-night stand with this seemingly "prince charming."
He is gone when you wake up... and maybe you might not ever hear from him again.
So, it just goes to show that life is held up by a weak link in every aspect.
You're worried about being married and the "real" life passing you by... Well, I'm 28 and have never been on a date. Life will pass you by if it wants to. It is not in our hands to change. We can simply decorate it a little differently.
I am in a similar situation, only I have a child. My advice to you would be to get out before that happens. You deserve someone who can love you and treat you kindly. That's why you strayed. Deep inside you know this. You need to just tell him you can't trust him anymore and just don't feel the same. Get a divorce and pursue someone else.. someone who you won't be afraid to have a family with and spend the rest of your life with.. in happiness..
Ur trying to justify ur actions by claiming ur husband to be an awful person... If u don't love him u should not be w/ him. There was no reason to go back to him. If u claim to be scared of him WHY move back into a house w/ him?? I think u need to figure out ur own issues b4 being w/ anyone!! If u don't love ur husband then leave. I don't know if ur on here trying to make people feel sry for u but thats not gonna happen. U did wrong by cheating! If ur husband is abusive towards u then u shoulda left... Cheating was NOT the answer!
Is it bad that i'm so lonely that i have one night stands...?
to try and forget about the loneliness?
i have some truly fantastic friends that are like my family. Its just i have always had this thing where i hate sleeping (not sex just sleeping) alone, and being by myself. I mean i spend time by myself and all but i love hanging out with poeple who make me feel good about myself. I always seem to attract the guys who treat me like crap and this was before all the one night stands. Im not saying im incomplete without someone, i just love hugs and kisses and people who truely like you for who you are.
One night stands are not this obviously but for 2 seconds i can forget about it all and its like im in mu own little world.
The thing that cut me the most was me and this guy were hanging out heaps, just talking watching movies and stuff we did sleep together a few times. Then out of the blue he just stopped talking to me and it confused the **** out of me. turns out he was sleeping with another girl at the same time. im not saying its THE reason that i do it but it did add to it.
Suggestions/Opinions?Is it bad that i'm so lonely that i have one night stands...?.Get a puppy to sleep with, get come confidence and comfort in being with just yourself, and for goodness sakes get tested regularly for STDs/STIs because although I've nothing against promiscuity, it does significantly increase the risk you'll get "something"...and remember, some things you could acquire, are incurable.
Take care of you...unfulling sex is more likely to leave you empty and feeling bad about youself, than just sucking it up (so to speak) and sleeping alone.pick a part rachel zoe collection salt lake google chrome extensions
i have some truly fantastic friends that are like my family. Its just i have always had this thing where i hate sleeping (not sex just sleeping) alone, and being by myself. I mean i spend time by myself and all but i love hanging out with poeple who make me feel good about myself. I always seem to attract the guys who treat me like crap and this was before all the one night stands. Im not saying im incomplete without someone, i just love hugs and kisses and people who truely like you for who you are.
One night stands are not this obviously but for 2 seconds i can forget about it all and its like im in mu own little world.
The thing that cut me the most was me and this guy were hanging out heaps, just talking watching movies and stuff we did sleep together a few times. Then out of the blue he just stopped talking to me and it confused the **** out of me. turns out he was sleeping with another girl at the same time. im not saying its THE reason that i do it but it did add to it.
Suggestions/Opinions?Is it bad that i'm so lonely that i have one night stands...?.Get a puppy to sleep with, get come confidence and comfort in being with just yourself, and for goodness sakes get tested regularly for STDs/STIs because although I've nothing against promiscuity, it does significantly increase the risk you'll get "something"...and remember, some things you could acquire, are incurable.
Take care of you...unfulling sex is more likely to leave you empty and feeling bad about youself, than just sucking it up (so to speak) and sleeping alone.
We were on a break, I thought it was over, had a one night stand, he came back?
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